On our site you can find a lot of materials and advice for those who want to improve the relationship between husband and wife in marriage. For those who wish to build their family relationships and their love on a solid foundation, we want to offer helpful tips wives about their love for their husband and children.

Now so often talk about unconditional love to the child, which sometimes begins to seem as if the whole family is built on this. There is a sad joke: Today children are in fashion, but fathers are not.". This is just about such family situations, when the attention and care of the mother is unequally distributed between the children and their father. If parental roles are relatively temporary, then marital roles are for life. After all, when the children grow up and leave the “nest”, we will again be left alone with our husband.

Therefore, every time there is dissatisfaction with her husband, it is very good remedy– ask yourself the question: “How can I change because of this situation?” And then very soon you will be able to see inside yourself an “untiled field” and forget about plans to “re-educate” your husband.

Paradox family life lies in the fact that the husband is ready to adequately participate in the life of the family and children only when he has a good relationship with his wife.

Ephesians 5:33 "But each of you must love his wife as himself, and the wife must respect her husband."

The fact is that the husband "reads" (accepts, feels) his wife's love only through self-respect. Do not compare with yourself: we, women, are different.

1. Respect your husband's territory, then he will respect your territory. Do not clean up your husband's desk without his permission, do not throw away your husband's things without his knowledge (for example, an old T-shirt or sneakers). His territory is also his personal phone, computer, his pages and folders in the computer, his diary, diaries, personal letters, and so on.

2. The next piece of advice is about personal space. The husband's personal space is also his work and his illnesses. Without his consent, you cannot share with anyone about his work, especially about her husband's problems at work (if any). Also, without the consent of the husband, one cannot share with anyone about his illnesses or sores, if any. Even asking for them. This would be extremely disrespectful to her husband.

3. Simple but important advice wives - do not comment on your husband's habits with other people, even with relatives or with your children.

4. Listen to your husband without interrupting. This is also a sign of respect for the husband from the wife. I read somewhere: Love is not like when someone brings you a bouquet of roses and you smell them. Love is when they tell you all day about 95 gasoline and you listen to it».

5. Do not make remarks to your husband! None! Communicate the essence of the issue in other ways and maneuvers or clarifying questions.

6. Better "collect" the virtues of her husband, and not his shortcomings. It has been noticed: if a wife always scolds her husband for his shortcomings, then they intensify in him. If the wife praises and notices his good sides, then the husband becomes even better. I advise you to start a notebook and write down the best qualities of your husband, so as not to forget about them. It helps a lot in difficult times to become grateful!

7. Very important advice - admire your husband! Not only do we wives need compliments and words of admiration, but the husband also needs our admiration. There is an example when a smart, wise, rich and powerful woman openly admires the achievements of a man. This is the Queen of Sheba. She specially came from afar to personally express her admiration to Solomon.

1 Kings 10:7-8 “I did not believe the words until I came and my eyes saw: and behold, half was not told to me; You have more wisdom and wealth than what I heard. Blessed are your people, and blessed are your servants, who are ever present before you and hear your wisdom!”

8. Sexual relations are also very important point to show love and respect for the husband from the wife. Therefore, if a husband is waiting for sex in bed, then you need to give it to him. The husband should not be deprived of intimate life. And he should not feel like a pathetic supplicant, turning to his wife for affection and intimacy.

The husband must be sexually satisfied. Otherwise, the wife sins, pushing her husband into all sorts of temptations. In general, sex for a man is a very important moment for his awareness of himself, his masculinity and worldview. Therefore, plan your schedule so that you have strength for your husband, and you do not spend everything on work or children.

9. The modern world is such that society gives concessions to women, but not to men. If a man does not earn a lot of money, he is called a "loser". If a man cannot afford to buy a car, they say about him: "he is not a man." Therefore, it is not necessary to become like this world and hang "labels" on your husband. If a wife respects her husband, then everyone around him respects him. Including children respect their father.

10. Children are a wonderful mirror. family relations. By the behavior of the children, you can immediately determine what kind of reputation the father has in this family. Since children very subtly feel who has the final say in the family.

I'll give you some examples wrong upbringing children by mothers in whom there is no respectful attitude of the wife to her husband and children to the father.

  • The husband has forbidden something to the child, and he goes to his mother for another decision.
  • The child believes (and declares this to everyone) that mom knows better than dad.
  • If dad and mom are together, but having received instructions from the father, the child looks at mom in anticipation of the final command to action.
  • The child allows himself to discuss the actions of his father aloud.

“Our dad was lying on the couch all evening yesterday” or “Our dad’s hands are growing in the wrong place” and so on. It is immediately clear that these are "adult" phrases - mother's! The authority of the father is brought up much earlier, when the children are still small. After all, when children grow up, then in adolescence Mom can't handle them alone.

11. Also maintain the reputation of your husband among acquaintances and relatives (especially your relatives). In this regard, our mothers and close girlfriends are very “dangerous”.

12. And last tip wives - be sure to forgive your husband! For all! Easy and fast! We must not forget that we also make mistakes: we spill milk, break dishes, stain clothes, forget something, be late for something, and so on. Making mistakes is normal in our life!
Being a wife is a big and responsible job, as family relationships are not built by themselves. They need to be worked on!

“And in everything give thanks to God in every circumstance” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

We hope that these tips for wives will help strengthen your relationship with your husband. You can apply these tips, but remember that everyone is different. Every woman and every man has his own character and life experience. There is no universal advice for either wives or husbands.

January 2018
Susanna Anayan, Moscow Church of Christ

Quite often, men and women think about how a husband should treat his wife. After all, it's not a secret to anyone that it depends to a large extent. Yes, it is, as many believe, achieved through the behavior of a woman. But at the same time, a man should behave with dignity. Otherwise, there will be no harmony. After all, a woman is the same person. She should not tolerate bullying and disrespectful attitude towards herself. So what features should be taken into account so that the relationship between the spouses develops well?

Respect

The first and rather important point is respect. Without it, one cannot imagine normal relationship. How should a husband treat the wife he loves? Respect.

It does not mean to be henpecked at all. But a man should respect his beloved woman. It is impossible to insult, humiliate and offend, all the more, it is impossible to raise a hand against your wife. This is the height of disrespect. It is also not recommended to speak unflatteringly about the parents of the spouse.

Equally

The relationship of husband and wife is something that cannot be described briefly. Each family has its own rules of behavior and relationships. Despite this, there are still common features.

The next piece of advice is treating the woman you love as an equal. And in any situation. Usually, this feature ceases to be observed when the wife goes on maternity leave and sits at home with the children, not replenishing the family budget. Even in this case, the husband should not reproach the woman. Spouses are equal members of the family. In any case, in Russia. This rule is regulated at the legislative level. Therefore, it is worth remembering that a man and a woman in the family have equal rights. You can't hurt them.

conversations

How should a husband treat his wife? Conversations between spouses require special attention. It's no secret that women tend to communicate a lot. And men are not. They are short and to the point.

What's next? If a dispute arose, in no case should one stoop to humiliation. If emotions take over, you should either avoid dialogue or communicate with the woman calmly. As much as possible. Wives are emotional people. Very often they remember everything that was said by their husbands in the heat of the moment. And in the future it will play a cruel joke with a man.

Support and sympathy

How should a husband treat his wife? Women, due to the special structure of the psyche, the structure of their organisms, need sympathy and support. Especially if there are any problems. You should not immediately decide everything for a woman. First of all, you need to support her and sympathize, empathize. Both in word and deed. Show tenderness and affection when the wife needs it.

A husband is a support for a woman. Therefore, the spouse must be sure that she will be able to support her in difficult moment. This is extremely important. Maybe for a husband, sympathy and empathy are not so significant. But for the wife - quite. A marriage in which a girl does not have support from her beloved man is doomed. Most likely, she will start looking for her on the side.

Support

How should a husband treat his wife? It has already been said that a man is a support for a woman. The head of the family, the "stone wall" that protects from troubles and dangers. This is the behavior of a real man.

The most important thing is that there really is support. And that it was not an illusion based on words. A beloved wife should feel safe with a man. Then she will be able to give her affection and love to her husband. Only in this case, harmonious relations are possible.

Unfortunately, now the trend is such that wives begin to take on some of the male duties, and it is not possible to rely on the spouse. As a result, internal family problems arise that cannot be solved in any way. loving husband- this reliable protection and support for women. A person who gives confidence in the future.

home, child, entertainment

It has already been said that spouses in marriage should be on an equal footing. Now some specifics. Quite often, after the wedding, the beloved wife begins to serve her husband, takes care of the house, life, and family. In the modern world, women, as already mentioned, often work to help their husband provide for the family. And then they take over the "second shift" - they do household chores.

Such a phenomenon is detrimental to relationships. How should a husband treat his wife? Help with the baby and around the house. Give the woman time for herself. And if the husband rests from time to time (for example, once a week he goes fishing), then the wife is entitled to a similar day of rest. This is especially true when both work. It is unfair if after labor day the husband sits down to play at the computer while the wife cleans, does laundry, cooks, does homework with the children, and so on.

In other words, there should be mutual assistance and mutual understanding in the family. Of course, every good husband must remember his masculine duties. And don't involve your wife in them. If it so happened that, for some life circumstances, a woman began to perform male functions, the husband takes on some of the female ones. This is a guarantee of equality and successful unit of society.

Pregnancy

Very often people are interested in how a husband should treat a pregnant wife. After all, during this period, a woman's body is rebuilt. Someone becomes calm, someone becomes an unbearable hysteric. How to behave?

  1. Pregnancy is not a disease. This should be remembered. But, as many say, it's easier to go to work with a cold. It should be remembered that during pregnancy a woman is most vulnerable. Therefore, it is recommended to be patient and not react violently to emotional changes.
  2. Again, pregnancy is not a disease. Treat your wife like you don't need to. But it is worth listening to the requests of a woman in a position.
  3. Support and attention - that's what a pregnant woman needs. If the wife asks to go for an ultrasound and look at the baby, it is better for the husband to agree. And show interest in the unborn child. The woman will be pleased.
  4. Tantrums and strange desires of the wife are a temporary phenomenon. They, as already mentioned, must be endured. In no case do not threaten with a divorce, do not leave the girl "in position" alone.
  5. Less stress. A woman whom a man loves needs to be protected from any trouble during pregnancy. After all, your baby's health depends on it!

All these tips will help a man to show himself as a loving and attentive person. Of course, all other features should not be forgotten either. Basically, the key to success is:

  • respect;
  • attention and understanding;
  • equality;
  • ignoring some female emotional outbursts;
  • manifestation of care.

According to Sharia

Most of the peoples of the world have specific guidelines for how a husband should treat his wife. This normal phenomenon. What can Biblical stories, for example, as well as Muslim traditions offer?

According to Sharia, a man should be guided by the following advice:

  1. Communicate with your wife on an equal footing and do not prohibit everything that Sharia permits.
  2. Tolerate insults that a woman says. Do not respond to her aggression. Condescendingly treat your beloved during quarrels.
  3. To please the wife, to make laugh and entertain. But at the same time, it is important to maintain harmony, to remain an authority for the girl.
  4. Keep a woman. It is necessary. A husband who does not support his beloved is a disgrace to the family. At the same time, the money a wife earns is her money. She has the right to spend them as she sees fit.
  5. A disobedient woman (who does not follow Shariah) is worth educating. It is not allowed to hit hard, in extreme cases and not in the face.
  6. All wives are treated equally. This applies to both provision and attention.
  7. Protect and protect a woman who is a wife. Protect where it is not prohibited by Shariah.
  8. If a husband does not love his wife, then one should not show his dismissive attitude. Humiliate, offend, insult, beat - too. It is customary for Muslims to treat women with respect.

Bible

And what advice regarding male behavior in the family can be extracted from the Bible? To be honest, the instructions are somewhat similar. What does the Bible say? How should a husband treat his wife?

Among the instructions are:

  1. A manifestation of firmness of character and at the same time tenderness for his wife.
  2. Beloved woman must be constantly praised, admired. Then the girl will improve.
  3. Be equal. The family is equality. It is required to yield to each other, to help.
  4. Don't criticize your wife. A woman who is next to a man is the choice of the head of the family. There is no need to criticize the weaker sex.
  5. Remember the importance of the little things.
  6. Don't ignore a woman's need to be close to a man. Attention beloved should be given in the first place.
  7. Satisfy the needs of his wife, treat mood swings with understanding.

There is an old Russian proverb: "A good husband has a bad bird - a queen. And a bad one has a figure - a fool."

All of the above tips, if followed, will provide a woman with comfort, tranquility and coziness. The girl will gladly satisfy the desires of her husband. Therefore, it is important to understand that harmony in the family depends not only on wives. If a man behaves with dignity, then there will be an appropriate couple next to him!

Husband and wife in bed
You are much better in bed than your neighbor. Husband:
- What??? Wife, frightened:
- Yes, we were just discussing husbands with a neighbor ... Husband:
- Here, neighbor, pawned, fool ...

A Jewish wife and husband are watching an adult film on a rented cassette. Wife:
— Izya, we are watching this film for the eighth time!!! Husband:
— Sarah, we took this film for a day and we will watch it for a day!

Husband and wife talking
- You need to put a peephole in the refrigerator, otherwise you will open the door and think for an hour what to eat. And the refrigerator is defrosting at this time ...

Wife and husband:
Why did you name our new dog after me?
- I showed it to a familiar cynologist, he said that it was a useless, stupid dog.

“She sent her friend for potatoes, and he was hit by a car.
- Horror! And what are you going to do now?
- I do not know. Rice probably.

My husband is in danger of miscarriage. Another drunken spree - throw the fuck out on the street!

My wife says that all men are fools.
- Lying! Here I am, for example, a bachelor ...

Husband to wife:
You can't build happiness on someone else's misfortune!
“I didn’t take your bottle!”

Husband and wife:
"Sweetie, forgive me!"
- I can not! I already told my mom about it!

Knowing that ex-husband marries a young neighbor, she took revenge on him with purely feminine cunning: she married the father of a neighbor and became a mother-in-law.

At the end of a stormy family quarrel, the husband gives his wife:
“You need to be sexually punished!”
— Mmm, dear! Should I get down on my knees, or will you punish me from behind?!
— No, f***ing, I'm going to fuck my neighbor!

Wife:
- I went to the gynecologist! Husband:
- Let's! Show them all there!

An extreme sportsman takes his mistresses home while his wife cooks dinner in the kitchen.

- Darling, tell me that I'm fat and clumsy!
- Lord, may you eat your cake in peace ...

“Honey, what are we having for dinner tonight?”
- Nothing…
— Yesterday, too, was nothing!
- Prepared for two days ...

In the male representation, happy and a strong family- this is when a wife complains to her husband about her mother, and not to her mother about her husband ...

Yesterday I heard from my husband the whole truth about myself. And so, damn it, he felt sorry for him. Who does he live with?

Husband and wife at the dacha of the spouse asks the husband:
"Syoma, what are you planning to do today?"
- Yes, a hole should be dug: meter-by-meter-by-meter.
Why do we need a triangular pit?

To the question of his wife - where did he have in his pocket tights? Petrov thought and answered - from Gucci!

The husband comes home, the wife:
- Will you have meatballs?
- I will.
- There is no meat.
"Well then I won't..."
“You don’t like the way I cook?!

Husband to wife:
Have you put the car in the garage?
- Partially…

I found….with my husband….in the car…..condoms….scandal…and disassembly…..didn’t arrange….I’m kind……just poured them…..red pepper…..Hot night, my love…. I'm everything ... .. for you ... ..))))))))))

Shot from the movie "Mr. and Mrs. Smith"

There is a story about the meeting of the wife and mistress of one man. They began to discuss it, and the wife said:

He is a fool, a miser and a scoundrel. I don't understand what you're doing with him!

You are wrong, - the mistress answered, - he is both generous, and wise, and brave! Judge for yourself: every holiday brings me chic gifts- here are the rings, and the fur coat, and the car.

That's not true! - the wife was indignant - He doesn’t even give me flowers on holidays, he doesn’t give me a salary! He's still a miser!

No! - objected mistress. - He is a wise man, it is always so interesting to communicate with him. He read a lot, knows a lot, has his own opinion about everything. I love listening to him - I learn so much!

Say it too! - Wife grinned - He always carries some kind of nonsense and nonsense! It's disgusting to even listen to! And what a scoundrel! He will never intercede for me, he will not meet me at night, how to make repairs - so he disappears, and I do everything myself !!!

We are like about different men we say, - the mistress smiled - Three days ago, he even fought for me with the guy who called me names. Never allows you to carry anything heavier than a bouquet of flowers. And even at my house he hammered in all the nails, laid the parquet, tiles ... I tell you, he is generous, wise and brave!

And every one of them is right. Because with one of them, a man behaves in such a way that he looks like a scoundrel, and on the other, he is a brave man. Although the man is the same.

This story shows how much a woman influences a man. The same man can differ radically, depending on who is next to him.

I know examples of alcoholics in the first marriage and successful businessmen in the second. Conversely, I have seen successful men who left their first wife for a young girl. After a couple of years, they lost everything and became drinking bums.

Why it happens? Because the power of a woman is enormous. And her influence on a man is unlimited. In fact, the woman "makes" the man. It reveals some qualities in him, and neutralizes some. Most of the time it works unconsciously. Using generic scenarios and the experience of your family. If dad was successful, then she will unconsciously help him achieve success (she has such a picture before her eyes). And if dad was a loser or drank a lot, then her unconscious picture will lead the family to collapse.

The problem is that women do not understand their power and do not pay enough attention to their thoughts and actions. They do not realize their strength and the possibilities of their influence on their husband. If we knew we were born with magic wand, it is unlikely that we would wave it in vain and order all sorts of nonsense, right?

Let's look at what a wife can do with a man, how she can influence his character and actions.

Let's start with the negative influence of the wife

As a wife thinks of her husband, so he becomes. He sees in him only flaws and imperfections - they multiply every day. And then even the man who has great potential to be a good husband becomes an ordinary horned animal from the goat family.

If a wife does not respect her husband, no one respects him. No family, no friends, no colleagues. We can say that the wife on the forehead of her husband writes a certain word that characterizes him. And according to this inscription, other people begin to build relationships with him. This is how the wife, without thinking, writes some kind of disgusting thing with a permanent marker, and then she is surprised ...

If a wife does not trust her husband and does not open his heart to him - no one trusts him. Even if he is completely worthy of such trust, all the same, everyone around him will constantly doubt him. And what an increase or new perspectives!

If the wife is always dissatisfied with everything, then everyone in the family becomes just as dissatisfied. They will have the wrong apartment, the wrong dinner, the clothes, and the rest. And even parents will seem completely different from what they should be.

If the wife thinks she could better husband to find, this is the first step to male adultery. It is said that the woman always cheats first. True, she does this only mentally - and it is difficult to convict her of this. And a man cheats physically after his wife gave him such “permission” with her thoughts that he is far from the best.

If the wife is stingy in heart, does not want to serve her husband, warm him with love and appease him, he seeks solace for himself in alcohol and drugs.

If the wife does not allow her husband to do men's business- chatting with friends, fishing, garages and other nonsense, according to the female opinion, the husband is looking for rest differently - in alcohol, computer games, smoking and other not the most joyful things.

If a woman does not open her heart to her husband he becomes greedy. And then you won’t beg him for snow even in winter, let alone flowers on the eighth of March. The moment a woman cuts off her husband's access to her heart, he closes her access to his wallet.

If the wife is too independent- everything by herself and no one is needed, then the husband becomes irresponsible. Even if before that he was quite well responsible not only for himself, he seems to lose this skill, relaxes and grows together with the sofa.

If the wife is touchy the husband will be angry. Anger manifests itself in different ways in our bodies.

If a wife is mentally unfaithful to her husband then he will be stingy. And why should he spend money on a woman who is not today, so tomorrow she will find another and leave?

If the wife of her husband does not obey, constantly arguing and balking, then the husband will cease to be a man. He becomes irresponsible and sloppy, weak and "none".

If the wife regularly abuses her husband- for example, “takes out his brain” or yells at him, insults him, and so on, then the man will have two options. Or he becomes a resigned henpecked, with a completely broken will and male ego. Or he also begins to commit violence against his wife - most often in the physical plane.

If a woman is too active in external activities, the husband becomes a passive appendage to the TV. Although earlier he could be quite a successful businessman.

But there is also a downside!

If a wife sees good qualities in her husband and focuses on them - they begin to grow and multiply. Even if there is no reason for it. Even if he was not supposed to be responsible, he becomes so. Should not be the boss - but suddenly becomes. Etc.

If a wife respects her husband, for some reason friends and colleagues begin to respect him. They support him and help in difficult situations.

If a wife trusts her husband- other people trust him.

If a wife hides nothing from her husband, does not deceive, opens his heart - then the husband will not be able to deceive his wife and change her.

If a wife opens her heart to her husband, he becomes generous. He begins to look for reasons to please her and make her even happier.

If a wife sincerely serves her husband- he will take her under his protection with great pleasure. He will take care of her and protect her from everything.

If the wife is sympathetic to the temperament of her husband and try to satisfy him, then her husband will move mountains for her. To do this, you need to learn to see the qualities of your husband, and not measure him with your stereotypes.

This is the most important thing I want to convey to you. If your husband does not suit you with something, find the reason for this in yourself. And this work is worth spending time and energy on. What would I be like if I were a man? - Are you sure you want to know? “Then look at your husband. This is what they would be. He lacks masculine qualities just as you lack feminine ones.

For example, the husband drinks beer. Then your main job is acceptance. Acceptance that he has the right to ruin his health if he wants to. And this, most likely, speaks of your emotional dryness in a relationship with him. Perhaps he lacks support and encouragement.

Or the husband does not want to work. Then, perhaps, you work too much and absolutely do not obey him. And what's the point of kicking him and signing him up for interviews? Even if he goes there, with such an attitude, it will not last long. Therefore, you need to change yourself.

Why is the man on the couch? Because a stressed woman pushes him there. She rushes around like a meteor, sweeping away everything in her path, and in order to stay alive, he disguises himself as a cape on the sofa.

If your husband does not help you with the children - think about it, do you consider him a good father, worthy that the children love him on an equal basis with you? And didn’t you turn him away from helping by pointing out that he didn’t wash the baby’s bottom well, but didn’t boil the bottle again?

God gives us exactly what we deserve. Our parents, our children, our brothers and sisters - we cannot choose them. So you have to learn to accept. But it's different with husbands. There is an illusion of choice. There is a feeling that it could be different, better.

But this is only the appearance of choice. Spouses are also given to us by God. Otherwise, how would we meet and love each other? How would we find each other in the crowd and be attracted?

And since God gave you such a husband, it means that this is exactly what you deserve. But why and why - this is already worth thinking about. And what to do with it further is already your choice and your scope for creativity.

Take care of each other!

You can always blame each other and look for a speck in the eye of your spouse. Or you can muster up the courage and look into your own eyes with their logs.

And when you notice and examine your logs, you will finally be able to see that there is a Human next to you. Moreover, this person is a Man. And it has a lot of good stuff in it. And how much he just suffers from you. After all, a woman is much stronger in matters of relationships. From it, the energy of relationships is a fountain! And flooding a man with stormy waves is very simple. And after all, while sailing, he must also make a ship from floating chips, right in the waves! It's in your best interest to keep the waves calm.

Take care of each other! So much energy goes into meaningless fights within families, and yet these forces could be invested in creativity or the upbringing of children. Energy losses from each quarrel are colossal. Don't waste your energy. Learn to love.

Instead of a quarrel, one could spend energy on:

- Keeping yourself and your husband healthy- for example, you could start running in the morning, do exercises or go to the gym. One quarrel would be enough for a month of such useful activities.
thinking about and looking for a gift for loved ones. And also best friend for friend. And buy not something that we think he would like. And what he really wants and what he will be happy with (usually these are different things)

- Walking together or with children. Strengthening relationships by walking is the most effective method.

- view family album, memories of how you were so many years ago and how your relationship developed.

- to get to the payment terminal in the metro and put at least 100 rubles into the account of a sick child to help his parents perform surgery on him. He will grow up grateful, believing in good people and God, choose a good profession and help hundreds of other people. With one small action, you would have changed the whole world for the better - but you have wasted your energy on swearing.

It's difficult at first. But after all, even a flower sits underground for some time, in darkness and dampness. Then he needs to expend a lot of strength to break through the soil, to go beyond the darkness. Then you need to strive for a long, long time to the sun. And only then can he open up and show everyone his beauty.

Also people. It takes a lot of effort to learn to love. You need to give yourself time. And at some point, muster up the courage to step out of your comfort zone. And also allow yourself to absorb the Love that God selflessly gives us along with sunlight. And when you are filled with this love, you just need to open your heart.

Its beautiful, like the most amazing Flower, Heart. Heart full of Love.

Love men. They really need your love. Even if they never admit it.

Behind every great man there is always a woman who believed in him. And she truly loved. There is such a funny story about Barack Obama and his wife.

One evening, President Obama and his wife Michelle decided to have an unscheduled dinner at a restaurant that wasn't very luxurious. Once they were seated, the owner of the restaurant asked Obama's bodyguard if he could speak to the first lady privately.

Michelle and the man then had a conversation. The husband then asked Michelle, "Why was he so interested in talking to you?" She replied that in her teenage years, he was madly in love with her.

The President chuckled, "So if you married him, would you be the owner of this fine restaurant now?" and Michelle smiled, "No. If I married him, he would be the president."

I wish you that this day when you can open your heart full of Love will come very soon.