Perhaps every young man at least once in his life is faced with the following question: “Are my feelings mutual?” Of course, you can ask the girl directly. But what to do if there are too many doubts, and you don’t want to make yourself look stupid?
In this case, the girl’s unconscious actions come to the rescue, which she herself may not notice. But knowing about their existence and being able to read them, you can easily determine whether you really have a chance for reciprocity.
Signs that she loves you
All unconscious human actions can be divided into 3 groups: behavior, gaze, gestures. Let's look at each one separately.
Behavior
In order to find out whether a girl is in love, you need to observe how she behaves. Here are the main signs:
- Interest. A girl who cares is usually very happy to hear about your affairs. A sure sign is if a girl is trying to ask someone else about you, asking mutual friends about your condition. If a girl is always ready to help you, regardless of her own affairs, then most likely she likes you.
- Communication. A girl who likes you will look for communication with you. She will prefer talking with you to talking with her friend.
Pay attention: if a girl stays close to you at all general meetings and tries to talk, this is a sure sign.
- Self-sacrifice. Do you know that she is terribly afraid of drowning, but she boldly climbs into the boat after you? She definitely likes you.
A girl in love very often puts the guy’s interests first, forgetting about her own for a while. But remember that the girl will expect the same from you, don’t disappoint her.
- Present. A gift for no reason is a reason to think about the nature of your relationship. This is the most obvious way for a girl to convey that she likes a guy. If you were given a handmade item into which a lot of time and effort was invested, this can be a help for a long, serious relationship.
- Jealousy. Did you catch a look of displeasure when you started talking to her friend? You helped a nice stranger on the street, and then you can’t understand what upset her so much? She's just jealous of you. Even if you are not in a relationship yet, a girl in love does not want to share you with others.
- Care. If you are sick, and she comes to you much more often than all her other friends, if she tries to take care of your condition, she absolutely definitely likes you. All girls have a maternal instinct that makes them take care of people. But only about special, dear people.
- Happiness. There is one more, perhaps the least obvious sign. But it’s also worth paying attention to: a girl in love (even if unrequited) looks like a little sun. She rejoices at every little thing, and it seems that nothing can upset her.
Sight
- You are capable catch her eye on you when you are in a large company? See if this happens often. If at least three or four times during your meeting, the girl is definitely interested in you, she wants to look at you.
- If when I look at you The pupils of a woman in love enlarge, then this is a true physiological sign. But please, don’t try to look at the changes in girls with dark eyes. Even if you succeed, you risk embarrassing or frightening your chosen one.
- You turned your gaze to the girl and saw how she suddenly looked in the other direction? This means that she is in love with you and is embarrassed by it. She wants to look at you, wants to date you, but she is afraid that you will not reciprocate her feelings.
Sign language
- Touch.A girl in love will constantly seek touches of the object of feelings, often even unconsciously to herself. She will sit closer to you in cafes, in all attractions, in the cinema and in other places. For what? Hoping that at some point your hands will meet.
If a girl is constantly trying to straighten your hair, slap you on the shoulder, or remove an invisible speck of dust from you, you can safely confess your feelings to her - and you will probably receive reciprocity. - Excitement. For any woman, meeting the objects of her desire is a very exciting event. By looking at her at this moment, you can easily understand whether she feels something for you.
A girl in love may have a slight blush on her cheeks and rapid breathing; she will not know where to place her hands and may even answer inappropriately. In order to notice these subtle, almost invisible signs, you need to develop good powers of observation.
- Flirting. Girls are big coquettes. And it’s not surprising that a girl who is in love with you will flirt with you. Flirting is a sure way to determine sympathy, to “test the waters.” How can you tell if a girl is flirting? A sure sign of flirting is compliments. They can be either direct or veiled “woven” into the conversation.
Often, when a girl flirts, she teases and teases you. Don't be offended - this is a sign that she likes you. Of course, provided that the girl does not do this often and only on topics that you make fun of yourself.
An equally important sign of flirting are gestures and movements. If a girl “shoots” her eyes in a conversation, twirls her curls and smiles sweetly, be sure that she likes you and is flirting with you.
- Rapport. Another sign is that the girl unconsciously “mirrors” your poses. She can keep pace with you, sit in a cafe in the same position, hold her hands in the same way - all this will be a sign of sympathy.
- Personal space. If a girl is calm about your intrusions into her personal space, this will also be a sign of her sympathy for you.
What is invasion of personal space? This is if you touch her hair or cheek without her permission, if you suddenly take a bite of her ice cream, or if you take a ringing phone out of her purse to give it to her. Did the girl endure all this? She really really likes you.
Signs of indifference on the part of a woman
Here are some main signs that indicate that a girl doesn't love you:
- If a girl calls you not for the purpose of chatting, but only in cases when she needs something, this could be a sign - she's just taking advantage of you.
But feel the difference. If you chatted with a girl for an hour, and during the conversation about books she asked you to nail a bookshelf, then she is probably just looking for a meeting. And if she called and started the conversation with the words “fix”, “borrow” or “buy”, then she is completely indifferent to you.
- Young woman tells you about his relationships with guys? This means that you are only a friend to her, and she is in love with someone else. If she liked you, she (even when dating someone else) would not remind you of it once again.
- If you have already met, but the relationship has already deteriorated and you decided to break it off, look at the girl’s reaction. If she is sincerely upset, it means she still has feelings for you and everything can be restored. If she doesn't care, it means the relationship has outlived its usefulness, and you did the right thing by deciding to break it off.
But if, under the threat of separation, a girl suddenly begins to show such interest in you as she has never had before, this is a reason to think - maybe she is just using you and does not want to lose a source of money or help?
In this video you can see examples of how a girl in love behaves:
Now you have all the information you need. You just need to take a close look at the girl. She will definitely give herself away by word, gesture or deed.
7. She raises an eyebrow
This is an implicit sign of strong sympathy, so it should be taken into account in conjunction with others.
8. Position of her hands
If a girl crosses her arms over her chest, you can be sure that either she is cold or she is cold towards you.
9. Position of her palms
Another clue that the girl is interested is her open and upturned palms.
This position of the palms shows openness and readiness to develop relationships, while clenched fists are a bad sign.
10. She leans towards you
If she leans towards you when she doesn't really need to, take it as a sign. For example, she may lean in under the pretext that it is difficult for her to hear your words.
11. Showing off your body
Women know that men cannot resist women's charms, so a sure sign that a girl wants you is to show your loved one the open area of her chest, legs, and shoulders.
12. Physical contact
Did she casually touch your hand or hit you on the knee while laughing? Women don't touch people they don't like.
A girl may not be into makeup, but if being around you thanks to makeup increases the level of her beauty, don’t forget to take note of this.
In addition, her outfit, which is, for example, a tight dress, is an additional argument to think about.
16. She initiates communication
If a girl does not wait for you to call her, but calls you first, it means that she is very interested in you and in the development of the relationship.
True, this happens very rarely, and much more often the girl initiates the development of communication implicitly.
For example, she may spontaneously give you 2 flyers to a nightclub, without really explaining anything, in the hope that you will invite her with you.
17. She invests in communication
The girl takes the initiative to do something for you, offers to help or treats you with something, for example, coffee.
18. She asks if you live alone
Why do you think she might ask you this? Right to make sure no one will disturb you when you are alone.
19. She talks about your possible girlfriend
This is a classic. When the interlocutor says something like “Your girlfriend should like this!”, the purpose of the words spoken, of course, is not related to concern for your passion, which, perhaps, does not exist at all.
It's just that your new friend is trying to determine your status to make sure that you are a guy who is not burdened with a relationship, and she is not wasting her time.
20. She makes it clear that she has no one
Has she told you more than once that she doesn't have a boyfriend? And why do you think? It’s clear that the girl wants you.
21. She initiates conversations on intimate topics
If a girl is not a journalist on the staff of Eros magazine, it is unlikely that she will raise intimate topics in communication with you.
Women won't have these conversations with men they don't see as romantic partners.
22. She teases you
If a girl gently teases you, it means the flirt switch is set to the “On” position.
23. She tickles you
A girl wants to touch you, but doesn't want it to be too obvious, so trying to tickle you should count as attraction.
24. She can't look at you without smiling.
A smile is one of the main indicators in trying to figure out a girl’s attitude towards you.
When a girl smiles at you, it is a good sign that she is feeling positive and enjoying your company.
If she flirts with you and smiles constantly, then most likely she wants you.
25. She kisses you
This does not mean that your friend will sleep with you 100%, but she is clearly preparing a springboard, so 99% is already yours.
As a result of the kiss, the girl will find out whether she wants more, so give her a really worthwhile kiss.
26. She notices details
It's all in the details. If a girl notices that you have a fashionable haircut, a toned torso, or a delicious smell of eau de toilette, this is a clear indicator that she is breathing unevenly in your direction.
27. She compliments you
How to understand that a girl wants you? Listen to what she says. Especially if a friend gives you gifts, tells you that she likes the way you look, or praises your intelligence, humor and your talents.
28. She's looking for a compliment
A girl might ask you: “What do you think about my hair?” or “How do you like my dress?” Satisfy your interlocutor's interest and tell her that she is beautiful.
29. She doesn't look at her phone.
Today, people rarely look away from their mobile gadgets. But if the interlocutor hides her phone and, having entered into a conversation with you, simply forgets about her mobile friend, completely focusing on you, know that there is not much time left before sin.
30. She asks questions
By asking questions, a girl shows that she is interested in you and wants to get to know you better.
31. She laughs at your jokes
If a girl constantly laughs at your jokes, she is definitely attracted to you.
Does this mean that your friend is ready to sleep with you? Most likely not, but you are definitely moving in the right direction.
32. She agrees to do everything you suggest.
Even your most boring proposals seem like a great idea to her. The girl wants to spend time with you, no matter what you do.
33. She shares her food with you
“Take it, try it.” Has this ever happened to you? That's it. No one will share their food with people they don't like.
34. She borrows your clothes
Have you started to notice that your sweater is increasingly hugging the girl’s shoulders, instead of keeping its owner warm?
It might just be cold outside, but most likely your friend wants to feel you closer to her.
35. She texts you at night
If a girl is texting you after midnight, she is thinking about you in a context that is definitely different from a purely friendly one.
Just don’t get ahead of the curve by trying to spice up your correspondence with piquant texts. Let her bring up the topic.
36. She always answers messages
Does a girl always respond to your messages without making you wait long? If so, then soon you will get to know her as closely as possible.
37. She really wants to meet
If a girl herself invites you to meet, especially if you accidentally bump into each other somewhere, she is clearly up to something. Or maybe the girl just wants you.
38. She herself offers to exchange contacts
In this case, the girl wants to get to know you better and, apparently, meet you again. A great sign of her strong interest.
It's great when a girl asks you to exchange phone numbers, because this doesn't happen often.
The girl’s desire to exchange contacts in order to quickly get rid of you is not taken into account.
There is a simple way: ask the girl about it. But the simplest does not mean the best. First, ask a direct question, “Can I kiss you?” The same indecision is hindering me. Secondly, a shy young lady is not always ready to answer him directly, even if she is waiting for a kiss. In addition, she is pleased when a young man himself takes the initiative.
But if you are attentive enough, you can always notice the moment when the girl is ready for a kiss. Observe her behavior, facial expressions, and eye expression.
- How far away does your friend prefer to stay from you? The closer you are, the more she likes you, which means your kiss will be pleasant to her. People who feel sympathy tend to touch their partners more often, touch their arm, shoulder, or hair. If your young lady avoids even simple friendly touches and tries to keep her distance, then she doesn’t like you too much yet and you should wait for a kiss.
- Pay attention to the eyes. How to understand if a girl wants a kiss. by the eyes? Very simple. The more often she looks at you, tries to meet your gaze, the more she likes you, she is ready for a kiss. And if you feel that the girl’s gaze is fixed on your lips, do not hesitate and kiss her. This is a sure sign.
- No less eloquent are the eyes and the lips. If a young lady can avoid direct gaze because of her modesty and timidity, then she does not control the movements of her lips. While waiting for a kiss, the girl involuntarily licks them, moistening them. The lips appear slightly swollen and the mouth opens slightly. This moment is one of the most successful for a kiss.
But if you still haven’t decided to make the first kiss, then wait until the moment of separation. A goodbye kiss is the most natural and easy, if only because after it there will be no moment of awkwardness and embarrassment. True, in this case, your friend will wonder whether you really care about her, or whether you just kissed her out of politeness.
Therefore, do not make the girl doubt you, be bolder and more decisive and remember that girls like to kiss no less than guys.
It’s clear that a guy should take the initiative in a relationship. And to do this, you must understand girls without words. In particular, you should learn how to understand that a girl wants a kiss. Then you can behave like a real gentleman, and not like a pervert or an indecisive virgin. There are simple methods for determining a girl’s readiness for such intimacy. With their help, you can easily read the situation and do everything as it should.
How to understand that a girl is ready for a kiss?
Simple but effective ways can determine whether she wants a kiss or not in a few seconds.
Such methods include:
- Her conversation with you. If she takes the initiative and behaves relaxed, it means she wants something closer;
- Sight. He looks at you point blank. Treats you like an exhibit in a museum? So you must kiss her!
- Touch. If she wants to kiss, then she herself will touch you, pester you and flirt;
- Parting. She doesn’t run away after the word “bye”, but just stands there and is silent for a while. She definitely wants a kiss;
- General behavior. Smiling, openness, joy in the eyes. All this indicates that the girl is not averse to moving to the next level.
Unconventional signs that a girl wants a kiss
Psychologists have found out several simple points that indirectly indicate that the lady is ready for affection. And these moments are:
- Lowering the chin and looking down;
- Lip biting;
- flaring of the nostrils;
- Half-closed eyes;
- Dilated pupils;
- Attempts to get closer to you;
- A little nervousness on her part.
But you shouldn’t rely on one sign, exaggerating the situation. Perhaps she's just nervous or uncomfortable, and you start kissing her and ruin everything even more.
Do not hurry. Watch her for a while. She herself should reach out to you with her whole body, giving unambiguous hints. Otherwise, you can make a mistake and get a slap in the face instead of a passionate kiss.
When does a girl not want a kiss?
To understand when she is ready for anything, you need to dance “out of the blue.” If she behaves withdrawn, does not pay attention to you and is reluctant to carry on a conversation, then you should not kiss her.
Also, physical distance is a sign of hostility. She stands away from you, doesn't touch you, and moves away when she tries to get closer, which means she's not ready yet.
The problem is also excessive activity, jokes on her part, and a large flow of conversation. In this situation, you are like a friend to her, with whom nothing can happen.
Try touching her, either on purpose or by accident. Is she nervous, neutral, or angry? Therefore, she doesn't like you. Something needs to be done to correct the situation.
If you understand that she does not want intimacy, do not act forcefully. A forced kiss will be rejected, and you will end up on the list of perverts. Here you need to act more cunningly.
Try to reduce the emotional distance and defuse the situation. If not, wait another time. Then she will definitely understand that you don’t need this and will want to be kissed. This is a simple instinct of female contradiction.
Remember that kissing should happen on its own. If you ask a girl “can I kiss you,” it will disgust her. After all, all ladies want to see real psychics in guys.
Don't tell her that you've never kissed, even if that's true. In this case, the girl will feel awkward and will make you just a friend.
Don't base your date solely on observing her behavior. It’s best to kiss after everything, at the moment of goodbye. Otherwise, you can become fixated and look like a schizophrenic and a bore.
If you understand that the girl wants a kiss and you failed, then you should forget about the failure. Try again with another girl. Perhaps you are not suitable for her or she herself is to blame. Look for one that you can easily understand. And then your reputation and personal life will not be threatened.
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In accordance with established stereotypes, a girl should not show that she wants to kiss you. So if a girl is subject to such stereotypes, then you won’t know anything for sure.
To answer subjectively, if I want to kiss, then
1. I shorten the distance. Unceremoniously invading personal space, yes. As an excuse, I can say that kissing is a rather erotic act for me, and such a desire usually arises with a person I know well. But yes, the face is closer to the face, take the hand for a stupid reason, touch.
2. I start biting my lips. Whether I’m nervous or anticipating, I can’t say.
3. It is difficult to look into the eyes; the gaze constantly glides over the lips.
4. In extreme cases and in the appropriate mood, I say that I really want to kiss.
5. It seems to me that my breathing is getting deeper. But I’m not sure, I don’t have much control over my own manifestations in such a situation.
It’s not clear, by the way, why girls don’t always do this themselves; there were no refusals, pah-pah-pah. Although there were disappointments))) but that's a completely different story.
But, I repeat, this is with a person who already knows him well, at least after a long conversation and a general flirtatious-romantic mood.
It is no secret that a kiss, especially if it is the first, is the main sign of sympathy and the beginning of a romantic relationship. It is from him that the heart jumps out of the chest, the head feels pleasantly dizzy, and weakness appears in the legs. But in order to decide on this seemingly simple action, partners have to experience considerable stress, especially guys. Therefore, girls, after several meetings with a guy, often wonder how to understand on a date that a guy wants to kiss you? They become slightly confused, thinking that there is something wrong with them, or the guy is too shy, because on every date he cannot decide to kiss.
Before racking your brain with thoughts about why a guy doesn’t kiss you and coming up with various non-existent reasons, pay attention to his behavior. Perhaps a little push on your part is needed to make the man feel more confident.
Flirting
You should understand that if a guy flirts with you on a date, it means he decided to kiss you today. Although he hides his feelings, his body language still gives him away. A young man, at such moments, can be incredibly gentle and sensitive. He will constantly strive to touch you and move closer. He will hold your hand and look into your eyes. Will tend to touch your face or stroke your hair.
Stop saying things all the time. Listen to his words. If he is distinguished by his playfulness on this day (evening), then you have every chance of moving on to kissing on this date.
Eye contact
Pay attention to where the man is looking during your monologue. When a guy often looks at your lips, it is easy to understand from this behavior that he is thinking about how to kiss you and wants to do it, but does not dare, considering this situation not suitable.
Also, a good sign that a guy wants to kiss you is the moment when he looks intently into your eyes, while admiring them. It is also important to observe his facial expression, from which you can learn a lot of information about the course of his thoughts. If you look closely, you will be able to notice the very moment when there is no longer any way to retreat.
Lips
If you notice a slight excitement in a man, and at the same time, he either touches his lips with his hands or bites them, then this fact can be considered a sign of a desire for a kiss. The young man, as if unconsciously, gives you a signal that he longs for your kiss. Typically, this behavior occurs when you and your partner do not have eye contact.
Distance
For a young man to kiss you, it is important to change the distance. If he sits or stands far enough away from you, then how can you understand what a man wants? And how can you count on the desired result in such a situation? But, if you are close to each other, and he touches you, then a kiss is inevitable. Therefore, remember: the shorter the distance between you, the faster the man will decide to kiss.
Compliments
If you hear compliments from your boyfriend, then be sure that he likes you. He admires your beauty and talks about it. Know that beauty is your tool with which you can get what you need from a man. Don't worry about a man's indecisiveness if you see that he simply adores you. The kiss will follow in a matter of minutes.
Voice
Another sign that a guy wants to kiss you is when he starts talking in a whisper. According to psychologists, whispering is a sign of passion and desire for intimacy. Therefore, when a man begins to whisper something in your ear, and does it often, it means he wants to get closer to your face. And, there can be no doubt that the main goal of rapprochement is your lips. All you have to do at this moment is, as if by chance, turn your head to meet his lips, and the kiss will take place.
Pauses
Take advantage of the pause in your conversation and check if the man wants to kiss you. At the same time, you must also have the desire to do this. This is done simply: at the moment when there is a long pause, just look into the guy’s eyes. If he is crazy about you, he will also look without taking his eyes off yours and smile. This is exactly the moment when you need to make a little movement, literally a couple of centimeters, towards the meeting, and a passionate kiss will take place. But, if there are a lot of awkward pauses in your conversation, it means the young man has low self-esteem, and most likely your date will not go the way you wanted.
Touch the guy yourself. If he suddenly becomes embarrassed, then he is undoubtedly interested in you, or maybe even in love. If you don’t do anything on your part, you will continue to spend time with him like with a red-haired girl. As a rule, if a girl takes the first step, such boys are literally transformed, begin to feel confident in themselves, and they can no longer be stopped.
Privacy
Kissing is an intimate act that, according to most guys, should be hidden from prying eyes. Therefore, when a young man tries to arrange a meeting in some secluded place, do not doubt that he has a mature plan on how to move to another level in your relationship. To do this, the young man will definitely invite you to the cinema, to the last show (the last rows will be indicated on the ticket), or will offer you a walk in the park (he will try to take you away from people), or will say goodbye to you for a long time near the entrance. In short, he will need a calm environment so that everything planned goes smoothly.
Chewing gum
Chewing gum, of course, is not a direct sign that they want to kiss you, but still, it can be considered a sign. This behavior can be explained by the fact that the guy wants to kiss the girl and is preparing his mouth for the kiss, especially if you notice that he uses a breath freshener from time to time. We cannot exclude the fact that the interlocutor may belong to the category of men who strive to look perfect all the time and think only about their appearance. If this is the case, then you are unlikely to wait for the first step from him.
Also, on a date you should remember your dignity, no matter how much you like the guy. If you have even the slightest suspicion that he is a womanizer, then stay away from him. Don’t entertain the illusion that only with you he will stop and become a good boy. He will most likely mark you in his notebook as another victim who could not resist his charm.
So, everything went well, and the moment of the first kiss arrived. Many girls, having waited for the desired actions from a young man, push him away, afraid of disgracing themselves due to their inexperience. They suddenly remember that they don’t know how to kiss. Remember, there is nothing difficult in this process. The main thing is to relax and surrender to your intuition, and your lips will make the necessary movements themselves, of course, if you are ready for such a turn in the relationship.
Due to their indecisiveness and inability to pick up the signals that a girl gives, many guys have probably lost several magical and exciting evenings in their lives. Perhaps you also suspect that a certain person has an unambiguous interest in you? How can I check this? There is no doubt about this – many girls really love sex. It’s just that not each of them decides to say this directly for some reasons of their own. Well, it is also important to note that if a partner does not bring physical pleasure to a girl, and she has to, for example, fake orgasms, then there is a high probability that she will avoid intimacy with him. But, of course, this does not mean that she does not like sex.
How often do girls want sex?
In general, it all depends on the degree of arousal of the girl and her temperament. Particularly temperamental individuals are ready to come into contact with their lover several times a day. In general, if a girl is not naturally very loving, unlike you, then you can solve this problem if you learn how to excite your partner. Some guys demand regular sexual intercourse from their lovers, not taking into account the fact that their temperaments may not match. If you really want to be with this girl, then you need to thoroughly study her passions and understand what can awaken her sexuality and what can turn her on. Otherwise, misunderstanding and alienation may occur in the relationship.At what age do women want sex the most?
According to most scientists, the flowering of female sexuality begins from the age of thirty until about forty. For many, this process takes longer - often it depends on the partner who is nearby. Although, of course, there are girls who have incredible temperaments even at twenty years old, but this is not a very common phenomenon. Often, after twenty, they are just beginning to learn all the advantages of intimate life and understand what they like about sex and what they don’t. A clear awareness of this issue and the formation of addictions often still occur by the age of thirty or a little earlier.
Often a woman hints to a man that she is ready for intimacy with him, but he may simply not pick up these hints. Pay attention to the behavior of your interlocutor - it is quite possible that she is trying to signal to you about her sexual interest. 1. She talks openly about intimate topics. She is not embarrassed by your questions and discussions on intimate topics. Moreover, she can initiate such conversations herself. Do not even doubt that this woman cares about you if she is open to you on such topics. We can talk about her or your sexual experience, possible sexual fantasies and preferences, a discussion of some explicit episode in a film, and the like. If she doesn't feel particularly embarrassed talking about such topics, and you can clearly see that she is in a good mood, then this may actually indicate that she is interested in you. 2. Vulgar jokes and coquetry In the case of vulgar jokes, we can talk about both your words and hers. If you joke about intimate topics, then the girl reacts positively to this and supports the joke in every possible way. An even more telling sign is if the interlocutor herself initiates such humor. She is also probably hinting at intimacy if you notice that the girl is clearly flirting with you. In general, any conversation on intimate topics, whether humorous or serious, implies that the woman likes you and is considering you as a sexual partner. An exception may be cases when you know that the interlocutor behaves this way with almost everyone, and there is nothing behind her words - she just likes to discuss spicy topics or put people in an uncomfortable position. 3. A girl touches you However, a girl’s sympathy can be understood without words - just pay attention to her gestures and the position of her hands. If a girl periodically strokes herself, for example, on her neck, leg or any other part of her body, then there is a very high probability that she is inclined to closer communication. Also, a sign of rapprochement can be the moment when the interlocutor constantly touches her hair, twirls curls on her finger, and the like. And yet, of course, there are exceptions. The interlocutor may pull her hair unconsciously, out of habit. Please note that if a girl does this even when communicating with friends on neutral topics, then it is possible that this gesture does not mean anything special. In addition, many girls like to touch their hair immediately after a visit to the hairdresser, thus, as if getting used to changes in appearance (even if they are subtle to outsiders). 4. Seeks privacy with you She wants to be alone with you, and you notice it. How can this be expressed? If you went out onto the balcony or went to another room, being in a large company, and the girl followed you, then this clearly indicates that she wants to be alone with you, with certain consequences arising from this. You can also invite a girl on a date by asking her to choose a place to hang out. If she likes a very intimate setting, then this may be an obvious hint of intimacy with you. An example would be a quiet and cozy coffee shop, the last row of a cinema, dinner at home. The last option is the most telling. By inviting a man home or visiting him, a woman assumes that this can lead to an intimate relationship.
What to do if a girl really wants you right now
Weigh the pros and cons
Of course, most young people are flattered by the attention of other girls, and a rare male representative will refuse sex if a pretty person offers to while away a few hours or a night together. And yet, no matter how flattering such an offer may be to you, it makes sense to carefully weigh the pros and cons. Perhaps, at the time of a frank and tempting offer, you will not even think that it brings you more negative consequences than positive ones, but it is still important to remain prudent in any situation. Do you like the girl? So, to begin with, it is important to determine whether you really like this girl and could you assume that she will become your life partner at least for some period? Why is this a big deal? If only for the reason that very few girls go for intimate intimacy without expecting that it will result in something at least more or less serious. She may not admit it to you out of pride, but is it really so? What does this mean for you? If you are not really attracted to a potential sexual partner, and subsequently you are not in the mood for an affair with her, then this can bring you a lot of unpleasant consequences. She will tell mutual friends or your next girlfriend about your “dishonesty,” start stalking you, express her disappointment, and the like. Of course, if the girl is very proud, then such a development may not happen, but think carefully about whether you are ready to take risks. And in general, it is important to understand that your partner can be very impressionable and amorous, and even if she does not make complaints against you, this does not mean that you will not hurt her. For many guys, this is already a sufficient argument not to enter into a relationship that has no prospects. Your age. Of course, your age and the age of the girl with whom you plan to have an intimate relationship are of considerable importance. If this person is a minor, then with all the desire, it is better to refuse such a relationship. It is quite possible that the girl will not have any complaints against you at all, but this does not mean that her relatives will be equally loyal if they find out that you had sexual contact. Keep in mind that you may subsequently receive not only a tarnished reputation, but an unrealistic criminal sentence. The argument that everything happened by mutual consent will not be valid in this situation. Family status. You should take into account not only your own marital status - it is also important whether there are serious relationships in the life of a potential partner. As you probably understand, such a romance will not end well if you or your mistress do not want to break existing family ties. Very rarely, betrayal goes unnoticed and has a negative impact on the life of the family. In addition, you should determine for yourself whether your life partner deserves such an attitude, and whether you will be ashamed in front of her, your children (if any) and other relatives if the relationship on the side is revealed. It is also important to remember that the reaction of the spouse or permanent partner of a possible mistress can be very unpredictable and result in very serious problems for you. All possible consequences. An intimate relationship can have many consequences, and it is not a fact that you will like all of them. Let's look at some of the negative ones.- Unwanted pregnancy. If you use contraception or your partner takes hormonal medications, this still cannot be a 100% guarantee that pregnancy is excluded. Remember this when deciding to have a casual relationship. Report to the police. If we are talking about a random partner for whom you have no further plans, then be prepared for the upset girl to tell the police that she was raped by you - you probably know that such cases are not at all uncommon. Guys who prefer rough sex are especially at risk. Family breakdown, if you are married. Perhaps detailed explanations are not even needed here. Even if your wife forgives you, this does not mean that she will forget about the betrayal - at the most unexpected moment for you, she may decide that she still cannot live with you anymore after what happened. Even if she doesn't immediately find out about your wrongdoing, you will never have a guarantee that this will continue to be the case.
How to refuse gently
If a girl hints at sex that you don’t want for some reason, then try to make your refusal sound soft - for sure, in a similar situation you would like a similar attitude. You can say that you are very worried, and therefore are not yet ready to have sex with her. You can also say that you haven’t forgotten your past love yet, and it’s hard for you to change your mind, and the like. Do not undermine the girl’s self-esteem, and voice an excuse that seems to indicate that the problem is no longer with her, but with you.8 signs that a woman doesn't get enough sex
1) She suffers from insomnia. 2) She looks older than her age (skin is “tired” and dull). 3) She often suffers from various ailments, and therefore is forced to take medications. 4) Very nervous, lashes out at others. 5) The skin of the face and body is prone to inflammation. 6) She is distracted and finds it difficult to focus her attention on one thing for a long time. 7) Unsure of herself. 8) Can look easily accessible - wears provocative things, wears too bright makeup.
Many men have difficulty when it comes to getting a woman to like them. They simply cannot (or do not want) to see the moment when a woman begins to want him. Therefore, let’s look at the signs by which you can determine that a woman wants a man. It's not that difficult. You should remember the main signs and work them out in practice.
How to know that a woman wants a man - signs
Self-doubt and complexes make themselves felt. Especially when communicating with the fair sex. Even some successful men get lost when communicating with the woman they like. And they absolutely do not see the signals of sympathy that the lady gives.
What to look for to determine the moment when a woman wants intimacy.
#1 On the eyes. If a woman wants you, you can first notice it in her eyes. She alternately stares and then looks away. “Shoots” with his eyes. The pupils are dilated. There is a smile on the face.
#2 On clothes. Let's say a woman comes on a date. She is wearing a short skirt, high heels, bright makeup and a deep neckline. All this indicates that the lady is trying her best to please you. She is interested in you, including sexually. Since revealing clothing is a subtle (or obvious) hint.
#3 On the lips. She licks her lips. This is an obvious sign that she likes you. The girl does this completely unconsciously. She's a little worried. This sign should push you to take more decisive action.
#4 For kinesthetics. The girl allows light touches, as if by chance. For example, he tells you something and, in a fit of emotion, holds your hand. This also includes touching the neck, ears, hips and torso.
#5 On her actions towards you. The lady can take radical action. Invite someone to your home, but under a decent pretext. This shouldn't confuse you. If you find yourself at her home, it means she feels sympathy and trust in you. If other signals from this list are present, feel free to start seduction. Just don’t rush: do everything smoothly and with pleasure.
#6 On her reaction to the kiss. If you kiss her and she responds the same way, this is a great sign and a call to move on. Especially if she starts hugging you and breathing heavily.
#7 On her communication. If a girl is interested in you sexually, she will be happy to support the conversation on the relevant topic. It’s even better if she herself initiates a conversation on more intimate topics. Maintain communication, add a great sense of humor and make sure you end up at her or your home.
It will also be useful to find out how long ago the girl had sex. If he has not been there for a long time, as a rule, she experiences a strong desire. It will be much easier to seduce such a person. If you have already started talking to her about frank topics, you can directly ask about it. If not, you can look at the skin. If there are small rashes, this indicates that the body lacks progesterone (the hormone responsible for maintaining healthy skin). Also, the behavior of such a girl can be nervous and irritable. This is caused by a deficiency of endorphins.
Girls these days are much less shy than in the days of our parents and grandparents. If you want to seduce a lady, you must act boldly and confidently. No one will get excited by talking to a “mama’s boy” or just an insecure young man.
The ideal combination is when you see all the signals of a girl’s interest and respond to them properly. It turns out to be a very good flirtation that will quickly bring you closer in every sense.
Now you know how to determine that a woman wants a man. And what signs of this exist. Good luck!
