Think about how you imagine your future girlfriend. In addition to her appearance, it is important to focus on her interests and hobbies. It's good if they match yours. Guided by this, you can choose suitable places to look for a girl. For example, if you are fond of sports and visit a gym, tennis club, swimming pool or other sports facility, you can try to find your soulmate there. Girls involved in sports often need help. You can give advice on how to properly perform this or that exercise, help remove a heavy barbell from its mounts, or simply compliment the girl you like about her good figure. All this will not go unnoticed by her.
If you study or work, you can try to chat with your classmate or employee you like and set up a date. Try to behave casually, do not hesitate to approach the girl and start a conversation with her. Remember that it is determination, and not appearance, that is valued by the fair sex in the first place.
Try to meet a girl in one of the vacation spots. Nightclubs are especially good for this. Most people visit them specifically for new acquaintances and meetings. Approach the girl you like and offer to buy her a drink or dance with you. Restaurants and cafes are also suitable places to meet people. Notice if there is a girl sitting alone at one of the tables or bar counters, and invite her to join you. Even if she's sitting at a table with friends, you can get to know the whole group and then focus on a specific girl.
Internet dating
Register on one or more dating sites if you are hesitant to meet a girl in other places. Add a few of your most successful photos, fill in information about yourself and your appearance, write your ideal girl. After that, you can start searching for the profile of a girl who suits you, or just wait until someone writes to you. In the same way, you can try to find a girl through social networks. Write a personal message to the one you like, introduce yourself and subsequently offer to meet and chat in a more romantic setting.
Hello dear reader! Of course, I understand that this topic is hackneyed, there are a lot of articles with the same content on this issue, but if they helped, then I would not have written this question now. I’ll say the following about myself: I’m 23 years old, I work as a KamAZ driver and I’m very happy about it, because I really respect serious, charismatic cars. In general, and, one might say, a way of life. You see, I absolutely don’t know how and where to find a girl. It would seem that now life has settled down, I bought a vintage car (again, as a hobby, not a means of transportation), got an official job not far from home, but the thought that I don’t even know a girl, even friends (I mean free ). , I don't know either. With the boys, I can talk about my loved one, and they will understand me. And the girls... It feels like this aspect of life has passed me by. There is no need to say that everything is ahead, because I imagine that Varick will remain alone all his life. Where to look for them, free girls? I tried to meet people on the Internet, and in the end they all freeze me, a loser. I won’t call myself a dirty chump, and I won’t call myself a trash either. An ordinary working guy. So what should we do? Please advise, bro!
Answer: on social networks or the real world. The main thing is to look, not to wait!
Well, great, working class! Your cars are truly charismatic. If I had one, I would have been married and divorced 30 times already. All my life I was sure that the driver of a KamAZ truck only had to drive up, sing: “Let’s go, beauty, for a ride,” and that’s it, life was settled. And there’s nothing to say about retro cars. If a beautiful girl in a '69 Mustang honked at me and offered me a ride, I wouldn't hesitate to get in. But for some reason they don’t signal.
Your problem, my friend, is precisely that you are not looking for, but expecting, that in your cramped, not at all feminine world, an ideal young lady will appear with whom you can do an engine overhaul and discuss which of your mutual friends has the biggest ass. Where to look for available girls? Somewhere outside the circle where they only talk about cars. To do this, you need to somehow get out of your cozy microworld and try something new. To be honest, we have written so much on this topic. There are, for example, dry cleaners and supermarkets. Something tells you that you don’t really like going to the theater, but you can sign up for courses that interest you. You never know, suddenly you are interested in something other than cars.
I understand perfectly well that drivers of heavy-duty vehicles do not have arms, but steel hooks, but if you suddenly want to pump up the rest of your body, go to.
Get acquainted, especially in such heat, anywhere. But first you need to get out from behind the wheel. You see, you won’t find a decent woman with just a retro car. In general, beware of women who are bribed by your property. To attract a good girl, you need to be something. And you know what your interests are. Demeanor - God bless them, but judging by what you wrote, your range of interests is small. What are you going to talk to her about? Are you interested in anything other than cars? If not, then it’s very sad, the likelihood of finding a madam who is ready to discuss the lack of money in the family and carburetors until the end of her days is zero. Therefore, I strongly recommend developing your horizons. Maybe there are things that you would like to do earlier, but you still haven’t had enough time for them? So, it’s time to do them, find time in your schedule.
Don't stop trying to find a girlfriend through dating sites or social networks, even if you have no luck the first couple of times. This is a great way, I personally know people who were brought into the registry office by a well-known service and a well-known social network. But who will be won over by your virtues? What do you have besides a regular job and a car? I don’t want to upset you, but you’ll have to be content with what the others haven’t figured out. So don’t lean on the material, tighten up the spiritual. If you are too busy, then the Internet can help. Maybe you'll find a car driver on a dating site. Then catch some to boot. Everything is written here.
We have also written a lot about talking. you can, but to maintain a conversation, you need to develop yourself, read books. However, the main thing with a woman is to talk, and then it will become clear what to talk about. The main thing is that, oddly enough, they are also people, so you are simply overestimating the situation.
The entire BroDude team believes in you and wishes you good luck!
If you don’t have a girlfriend, then a reasonable question arises: where to find her? Not all places are good for finding a new girlfriend, and each has its own characteristics.
Before you start looking for a girl, you should answer the question: why do I need a girl? Goals can be different to the contrary. Some are looking for a girl for a relationship, some for sex, and some just need a girlfriend to cry on in their vest (although this doesn’t happen often).
By the way, if you are looking for a girl for an easy relationship, you can read the article I wrote before. By the way, finding a girlfriend for sex is actually much easier than for long-term communication. After all, in this case there is no need to talk much, and you may have little in common, which will not prevent intimacy from taking place.
Where can a guy find a good girl?
Internet
Online dating is becoming increasingly popular. People meet both on specialized websites and on social networks like vk.com. After all, almost every girl today has her own page.
But meeting a good girl online is actually much more difficult than in real life. Why?
Firstly, many guys approach and write to every more or less attractive person almost every day. You'll have to stand in a long line.
Secondly, due to the popularity of online dating, competition is becoming more and more every day. After all, you don’t need any special courage to write on VK, unlike the approach in real life.
If you decide to meet someone on the Internet, then keep in mind that photographs are 95% of your success. And it’s not at all what you write. If you have cool photos, then you can start a banal conversation with Hello! How are you? And the girl will eventually leave you a number.
But we are not looking for easy ways, and move on to the next point.
Places of interest.
Now this is much more effective. Think about what interests you in life. For example, you listen to the band Linkin Park and are about to go to a concert. And there you can find a girl with whom you will have at least one cool hobby in common. It’s quite easy to get acquainted in such an environment: say hello, ask her opinion about what is happening, introduce yourself and ask her name.
These can be not only concerts, but also interest societies, intellectual games, sports clubs, hikes, etc. Just look around and see who's around you.
Street.
My favorite place. After all, on the street you can find absolutely any girl. You will have no competition for her, and if you make a good confident approach, she will appreciate your courage and boldness. After all, at most 5 percent of guys can approach you on the street and get to know each other adequately.
Yes, it's difficult. Especially when there is no experience. But if you set out to qualitatively improve your life and find a cool girl, then a wide field for action opens up.
Important point. It is better to get acquainted between lunch and the end of the working day, when the girl returns from work or school. Firstly, at this time they are without friends, and you can easily start communicating one-on-one. Secondly, their so-called level of protection from guys is reduced.
This is why many people don’t like to meet people in the evening, when the girl is dressed up for a walk and has taken at least one friend with her.
To give you a better idea of how to meet people on the street, watch the video
Catering establishments. Cafes, restaurants, etc. Can be used as an option. But as acquaintances “for life”. And not specifically go to cafes in search of a girl :-) .
Clubs.
Not the best place to find a girl for a relationship. Although anything can happen, there are several factors working against you. Firstly, again, there is high competition for beautiful girls. Secondly, you shouldn’t meet someone while intoxicated: it changes your consciousness, and you don’t quite adequately perceive the world and people around you. And thirdly, not all girls go to clubs. And you are missing out on the category of truly interesting and comprehensively developed individuals. It’s not that only stupid people go to clubs, but the trend is clear :-D . In addition, usually people in such places behave unnaturally, with feigned pathos, and it can be extremely difficult to understand who is who.
Conclusion
To find a good girl, you should practice communicating with the female sex every day. After all, if your communication skills leave much to be desired, then you can only interest simpletons.
Don't get hung up on any one person. And, when a steady flow of communication with new girls appears, one day you will understand that one of them is exactly what you need.
And then, perhaps, you will remember that you met her in a place where you did not expect to find your love at all ;-) .
Where to find a girl for a serious relationship? This question can be seen on various pickup forums. Indeed, many men simply do not see real places to meet. She starts making money early. They work hard all day, and after that they return home. And so every day. They keep in their heads the idea that they need to get acquainted, but they do not see the real opportunity that they miss every day. They learn at various trainings how to approach a girl, how to interest a girl, but do not know where to use this information. In this article, I want to open the eyes of everyone who thinks that they don’t have the opportunity to meet people, who really don’t know where to find the girl of your dreams.
As a rule, every person spends his day this way: work - home, home - work. And for students who do not live in a dormitory, the university is their home. This is how one day passes, the second, the third, a year, two and the whole life, no matter how trite it may sound. Every person waits for a certain event in his life, thinking that when it happens, then, finally, he will begin to get acquainted.
Well, for example, at school a student thinks: “When I become a student, then I will seduce various beauties.” When he becomes a student, he usually has no money, and he thinks: “When I earn a lot of money, then I will fill my life with beautiful women.” And he wants to go to work and earn money as soon as possible. After he gets a job and starts earning money, he again looks for the reason why it is impossible to find a girl. He sees different students and thinks about how good they are now - they have so many opportunities to find a good girl.
The problem is that we subconsciously look for any excuse not to get acquainted. We look at various rich majors and think that if they have a lot of money, then there is definitely an opportunity to find a girl. But we don't realize that these guys also have problems. Perhaps they don't have time or something else is stopping them. There is no such person who does not have problems. It’s just that the strong think how to solve them, and the weak cry that they don’t have the opportunity to find a girl.
So, let's get back to the question that different men often ask me. Well, like: “I work every day, and I don’t know where to look for a girl.” I answer - on the street. You may not have the opportunity to go to an expensive club. You may not have friends who would introduce you to beauties, but the streets are open to everyone.
Yes, this is not the easiest way to find a girl. You need to get out of your comfort zone, endure refusals and humiliation. Yes, yes. Anyone who wants to find a really good woman will have this. There is no such man who would meet someone the first time without refusal. There will definitely be beauties who will not like you. They may not want to communicate and will avoid you. And that's okay. Just accept the rejection and don't stop.
With each approach you will develop, become better. Each of your next attempts will be better than the previous one. And after a while you will become experienced and fill your life with really good women. I recommend reading the article about how to meet a girl on the street. There I described everything in detail - how to approach, what phrase to start a conversation with, and so on.
What places are suitable to find a girl?
1) Metro.
This is a very nice place where you will find a lot of pretty girls. If you have a metro in your city, I recommend meeting you at the nearest station, near your home. Because these young ladies will live next to you. You don’t then need to go to the other end of the city and waste your time in order to have a date.
You can then very easily invite her home or go to her without any problems. If you find a girl who lives near you, that will be just great. And the nearest metro station will help you with this.
2) Cafe.
You can often see a picture of a girl sitting alone and drinking juice. Perhaps she is waiting for someone, or she just decided to relax after hard work, it doesn’t matter. This is a good place, meeting a girl in a cafe will not be difficult. The young lady sits alone, no one distracts her, she is in no hurry. All you need is to confidently approach her and start a conversation with her with any phrase. If a woman reacts positively to you, smiles, then everything is fine, she was just waiting for someone to finally dare to approach her. And you just found what you were looking for. Confidently take her phone number and ask her on a date.
3) Shopping complex.
This is just an incredibly cool place where it will be easy to find a normal girl. It is visited by an average of approximately 100 thousand people. Let’s assume that at least 40 thousand of them are women. This is a good opportunity for you. Well, of course, you can’t get to know everyone, because there are beautiful people, and then there are crocodiles. But all the same, from such a number of women, I think it will not be difficult to choose a truly attractive beauty.
4) Hypermarket.
A lot of beauties visit it. And you can meet people right there. You don’t even have to think about what first phrase to say. For example, you take any perfume, go up to the girl and say: “Hi, I want to give my sister a birthday present, do you think she will like it.” And you ask her to smell it.
This scene can be played out with anything. It is very important to act confidently. And the most important thing is that you are not getting acquainted, but simply talking about socially appropriate topics. Then you talk with the beauty about this perfume, or about something else. After a while, ask her name, take her phone number. I myself use this method very often. In a hypermarket there is something to start a conversation about.
5) Minibuses.
This is also a good place to look for a girl. In addition, young ladies visit there very often. For example, I got into a minibus and saw a beautiful girl sitting alone. Feel free to sit next to her and start a conversation. But here it is very important to do this right away. If you don’t talk to her from the first seconds, then it will be much more difficult to do so later. The more you tune in to what to say, the more fear of approach will arise. Yes, and it won’t look quite adequate. You sit down, remain silent halfway, and then start a conversation. The young lady will think that you have been freezing all this time. Therefore, feel free to meet someone on a minibus, but start the conversation from the first seconds.
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6) Stops.
The beauty is waiting for the minibus. She can go to school or work, it doesn’t matter. But it’s better, again, if this stop is near your home. You approach her and start a conversation. The young lady, usually, will be happy to communicate with you, she simply has nowhere to go. And if you can interest her in conversation, then the success of a successful acquaintance is very great. If she reacts positively to you, you can play along a little, for example, get on the same minibus as her, then talk even more and gain trust in her. It will be much easier for you to date after this.
7) At a pedestrian crossing.
This is a good place to find a girl too. As long as the traffic light is red, she will communicate with you. Then, if the conversation goes well, you can go with her, as if you were on the road, and take the phone number.
As you can see, in this article I described places for dating that are available to every man. Even if your day consists only of work and home, you meet a lot of girls along the way. Take advantage of this great opportunity. I specifically did not write about various clubs, discos, because you can say that you do not have time, friends, and so on. There will be another article about this.
And most importantly, remember - never put off getting to know each other until later. If you think that tomorrow it will be easier to approach, then you are mistaken. Tomorrow you will be in exactly the same condition as today. You just need to finally dare and overcome your fear. If you don't do this, no one will help you. No matter how much you read, there is no magic pill. Therefore, put these tips into practice and you will be able to find a normal girl.
That's all for me! Good luck!
Good day, dear reader! Here you will learn about how to find a girl for a relationship and how to overcome your shyness. After implementing the advice, you will be able to find a girl despite your shyness and learn to communicate with the opposite sex confidently and at ease.
Very often, young people wonder: complain that during a conversation they feel constrained, nervous, and as if all eloquence and topics for communication instantly disappear. Moreover, it is very difficult for such guys to overcome themselves, approach a girl on the street and start a conversation. If you want to make a positive impression on a girl, you need to develop self-confidence. It is very important not to be shy and behave naturally during a conversation.
How to achieve this, you ask? Remember, friend: you need to constantly leave your comfort zone. For each of us, this comfort zone has its own boundaries: for one person the comfort zone allows one to feel calm and relaxed when speaking in public, but for some it does not even allow them to approach a passing beauty and say “hello”, for others it does not It is difficult to communicate with strangers, and some are afraid to come up and ask for directions or find out the time.
So, in order to expand your comfort zone, you need to make a list of things that are difficult for you to do. The more discomfort they bring you, the more suitable they are. For example, the list might look like this:
- Say hello to a girl on the street.
- Talk to a stranger for at least 10 minutes.
- Get the girl's phone number.
- Approach two girls at once.
- Sing a song in a crowded place.
- Speak publicly.
By following these points, you will gradually expand your boundaries and fight your shyness, you will gain experience communicating with strangers and you will already know what phrases you should use when meeting people on the street. It is important to carry them out in sequence from the simplest to the most complex. As practice shows, 7 days after completing all these tasks, shyness goes away. This method is an excellent “cure” for shyness., because nothing else will help you overcome yourself except practice and effort on yourself. Now you know what you need to do in order to feel more comfortable when starting an acquaintance. Next we’ll talk about how to successfully meet a girl to create a relationship.
What you should know when starting to meet a charming stranger. Treat dating like a game: more attempts - more chances to win. You can meet a girl for a serious relationship anywhere: the main thing is a positive attitude, calmness and confidence. It is also important to let the girl understand that you are not interested in anything other than her at the moment.
If you approach a group of girls and ask one of them for a number, don’t make a mistake. In no case should you immediately ask someone else for a phone number if they refuse. The girls' reaction will make you regret what you did.
The stereotype that only dissolute and partying young ladies go to nightclubs is no longer relevant. Nowadays, people go to such establishments not only to sleep with someone, but also to simply relax, chat and dance. So a nightclub should also not be ruled out as an option where to find a girl for a relationship. Take a closer look at your surroundings: perhaps there are also beautiful and pleasant girls in your educational institution or at work. The advantage is that even if you are too shy, you don’t need to look for reasons to get acquainted, because there are so many of them.
You can meet your companion among your friends. The larger your social circle, the more likely it is that one of them has a cute sister. Just meet people on the street. You can go up to an unknown beauty and give her a flower picked from a nearby flower bed and tell her a compliment. This gesture will most likely make the stranger smile and cheer you both up.
Places where you can easily find a girl for a serious relationship
1. The metro is a place where hundreds of beauties are found every day. I advise you to meet at the station that is closest to your home, because if the dating process is successful, there is a high probability that the young lady also lives nearby and you will not have to go to the other end of the city on a date with her.
2. Cafe. Nowadays, it is not uncommon to see a girl sitting alone and drinking tea or coffee in a cafe. She is not necessarily waiting for someone - perhaps she is just resting after a hard day at work. This is a very good opportunity to make acquaintances: the beauty sits alone, nothing distracts her and she is in no hurry. You just need to not miss the opportunity, come up and start getting acquainted. If she reacts positively and smiles, then everything is going according to plan, perhaps she was just waiting for you to approach her, and for you to find what you were looking for.
3. Shopping complex- this is a wonderful place where you can find a girl: on average, about 30 thousand women visit the shopping center per day - from such a number of representatives of the fair sex, you will definitely find yours.
4. Hypermarket – this place is also visited by a lot of girls. Here you don’t even need to figure out where to start getting acquainted. For example, you take any perfume, go up to the young lady you like and say: “Hi, I want to buy a gift for my sister, do you think she will like it?” Such an acquaintance can be played out with anything, the main thing here is to act confidently. The advantage of this method is that you first of all talk about distant topics: talk to the girl about perfume or something else, after a while you can ask her name or ask for her phone number.
5. Minibuses or other public transport. For example, you get into a minibus and see a stranger sitting alone - sit down next to her and start a conversation. The important thing is to do this right away. After this it will be much more difficult to do this, the longer you tune in, the more fear and doubt you will have. If you first sit down with a young lady, and only after some time you start a dialogue with her, the girl may guess that you are experiencing fear and uncertainty. So, feel free to meet people on public transport, but don’t hesitate!
6. Pedestrian crossing. As long as the traffic light is red, the girl will communicate with you, the main thing is to choose the right phrases to meet a girl on the street. If the acquaintance goes well, go with her as if you were on the same road and take her phone number.
Here we describe the most optimal places for dating, available to every guy. Even if your entire daily route consists only of work and home, you will probably meet a lot of cute girls along the way. Don’t miss the opportunity, fight your inner complexes and fears, be brave and confident - then luck will definitely smile on you and the best girl in the world will definitely become yours. Good luck!
