The image of a real man has long been cultivated both in works of art and at the everyday level. Moreover, the qualities that he should possess changed according to the historical era.
One century gave way to another, but many of the qualities that, according to women, a real man should have, remained unchanged.
If you want to be successful with the fair sex, if you want to be set as an example to others, you will have to try to form your courageous appearance.
Moreover, nothing supernatural is required.
“What do you mean, am I not real?!” And what do you mean should?!”
The representatives of the stronger sex themselves, for the most part, do not like this phrase “”. They like the word “should” even less.
One day in the park I witnessed a quarrel between two young people. The girl told the guy something for a long time and tediously until he broke into a cry: “What do you mean, am I not real?! And what do you mean should?! I didn’t borrow anything from you!” Then he threw it on the bench and walked away.
Of course, the young lady was not too smart, because conversations on such serious topics are not started in public places, but the guy, with his behavior, his childish hysteria, proved that he still had time to grow into the image of a real man.
So, in relation to a woman, a real man should be:
Patient.
Yes, it has been proven more than once that the weaker sex is not so weak, but has strength and endurance, which many real men can envy, but sometimes we behave like little girls: we are capricious, cry for no reason, get offended over trifles.
If these “weaknesses” do not appear so often, then you should behave like a real man: hug, calm, cheer, distract to another topic, and not yell with good obscenities: “I’m so tired of you! Stop being hysterical already!”
Caring.
There is no need to cluck like a mother hen over a woman, fulfilling her every desire, even the stupidest one. At the same time, your significant other should feel that she is cared for and that she has someone to rely on.
You know, in our progressive age, men do not need to fight a duel for their lady love, fight with their fellow tribesmen for the best piece of a mammoth carcass, etc. But this does not mean that you need to completely abandon the role of a defender.
Irina and Sasha were married for 4 years. The woman even liked Sasha’s gentleness and delicacy to some extent; she meekly took upon herself what a real man should do: repairs, car maintenance, disputes with utility services.
And then, instead of the sweet old lady, a creepy guy settled in the apartment behind the wall, who did not adhere to the regime of silence, had suspicious boyfriends and no less suspicious girlfriends, and smoked right in the vestibule.
Irina asked Sasha to talk to her neighbor, but he still refused. And then she decided to talk on her own, but in the presence of her husband. She didn’t make a fuss, she didn’t demand, she just asked, “Can you please adhere to the rules of being a neighbor?”
The conversation did not work out and a stream of such terrible obscenities was poured out on Irina, which she had never heard before. Sasha, instead of trying to protect his wife or at least call the police, simply dragged her into the apartment. He also scolded: “I told you that you don’t need to touch him.”
I don’t think it’s worth saying that after this the couple’s relationship went wrong. Irina could no longer live with her husband, who was not able to protect her at all. Six months later they divorced.
The woman’s new boyfriend, serving in one of the FSB special forces, instantly put his presumptuous neighbor in his place. He turned out to be a real man.
Reliable.
Very often, women in disputes resort to the following argument: “You are not responsible for your words.” Indeed, almost every one of us has met along the way a type to whom making promises costs nothing, because he is not going to fulfill them anyway.
Such empty talk does not hold the attention of real women for long, because who really wants a man who promises something but never delivers?
A real reliable man should be a support even in small things. Did you promise to buy bread? So buy it. There is no need to brush it off every time: “Oh, leave me alone, I forgot. Go yourself, isn’t it hard?” What can we say about more serious promises.
Strong and even tough with others, gentle and affectionate with his family. The image of a Neanderthal who proves that he is a real man through domestic violence has long gone out of fashion.
Even if some not-so-smart men call kisses upon meeting and goodbye, romantic surprises, coffee in bed, etc. pink snot, we consider it tenderness. And we really appreciate it.
A real man must fit a certain image...
Do you want to match a certain image? This means that they must acquire a set of important qualities.
1. Qualities that a real man should have.
Of course, in general, talking about the qualities that a real man should have is not easy, because different women, different national mentalities, and so on come into play.
For example, in our country, a man’s desire to hand over a coat, hold the door, pull up a chair, etc. is called , but in the West, many especially modern ladies may be offended by this.
And yet, let’s try to highlight 5 qualities that, according to most women, a real man should have:
- good sense of humor;
- lack of habit of constantly whining and complaining;
- the ability to look into the future with optimism and the like.
Self-esteem.
I wouldn’t like to use the ugly word “tolerated,” but it is precisely this word that, in my opinion, best conveys the image from which a real man should run away.
- which everyone who is not too lazy rides;
- who does not crawl out from under his mother’s and then Zhinka’s heel;
- who is always used;
- who has no principles or beliefs;
- who can easily be insulted, humiliated and not receive a response;
should not even try to pretend to be a real man.
Self-sufficiency.
This is a fairly broad concept, but I will try to explain what I mean by it.
A real self-sufficient man:
- personally integral;
- he is not a solitary hermit, but he also does not strive to constantly be in company, because he is afraid to be alone with himself and his thoughts;
- lives with the woman he loves, and not with the one he tolerates;
- has loyal friends who are ready to help in difficult times, but relies only on themselves;
- does what he likes, because working, studying, spending time with his family, and doing some household chores is a pleasure for him, not a duty.
And a man, whom everyone around him considers real, does not expect anyone to solve his problems, he copes with them himself. It is he who helps others, and not constantly being helped.
The desire to grow and develop.
If you don’t want anything: neither to improve the well-being of your family, nor to make repairs, nor to live an active life, nor to spend time with your family, nor to have a career, nor to play sports, nor to read books, then which of you is a real man?
Activity.
If you knew how men's refusals upset women:
- Let's go to the cinema in the evening.
- Reluctantly, I'm so tired.
– Friends invite us to their dacha for the weekend.
- Oh, no, I want to sleep and lie around.
– I would like to go on vacation to Italy. Take a tour to see their sights.
- Here's another one. What kind of vacation is this? To Egypt - eat, drink for free and lie on a sunbed.
Well, really, who needs such a boring, narrow-minded and lazy seal? The same seal as yourself? For a real woman, definitely not.
Cheerfulness.
Here we include:
Important ! And a real man must be smart: educated, well-read. His intelligence must be demonstrated both at work and in life situations. Now answer yourself honestly the question: “What kind of woman can an ignorant fool with a nine-year education lay claim to?” A shabby saleswoman from a beer stall with the same pea brain?
2. A real man must have...
The image of a real whole man is not only a set of some qualities. It is also a way of life, the possession of material and intangible advantages.
A real man can always say: “I have...”. And what he has is the object of desire of other representatives of the stronger sex.
A true man must have:
1. | My favorite job. | It doesn't have to be a big business. Do what you like: teach, heal people, make repairs. The main thing is that you love your job, get good money for it and be an ace in your business, and not a statistic. |
2. | Family | Forget about the image of a 40-year-old womanizer who spends time with different women and carouses with friends whenever he feels like it. At this age, a man should already have a strong family. A real man wants to nest and reproduce. He loves his wife, respects his parents and is proud of his children. |
3. | Material wealth. | Call the female sex mercantile bitches as much as you like, but you yourself understand how important it is to arrive at a certain age with some kind of material baggage: housing, a car, money savings. |
Important ! I would also like to say about what, in my personal opinion, a real man should have. This is a hobby. You must be passionate about something other than family and work. It doesn’t matter what makes you happy (collecting, fishing, hiking, sports, etc.), the main thing is that it is worthy, legal and at least relatively safe. And of course, you need to maintain a balance: you cannot devote most of your time to your hobby, otherwise you can lose everything else.
16 qualities of a real man.
What should an ideal man be like?
Girls, take note!
What should a real man get rid of?
I would also like to say about the shortcomings that you should get rid of if you are applying for such a high title of a real man.
A true man should not be:
- has achieved nothing in this life and is not even trying to achieve;
- has no core and life principles;
- easily led;
- constantly whines and complains;
- becomes a slave to bad habits.
Untidy.
Appearance is a bit of a secondary matter, but you shouldn’t ignore it completely. Watch your figure, health, neatness of clothes, do not ignore trips to the hairdresser.
A bad-smelling little guy will not be able to attract the attention of a beautiful lady, or rather, he will, but he will only arouse pity and contempt, and not sympathy. Can a man, especially a real one, claim pity?
Evil and cruel.
Courage and strength of character should not be confused with cruelty. To protect a woman from a bully is strength and courage, to raise your hand against a lady yourself is cruelty. And fits of anger are not good for anyone.
A miser who calculates how much a woman has spent on groceries, who grumbles that she is buying too expensive lipstick, who is greedy even to give flowers to his wife on her birthday (“extra expenses”) cannot a priori be considered a man, much less a real one.
Spineless and cowardly.
Hiding behind a woman's skirt, running away from troubles, being afraid of even the smallest danger, forever trembling with fear... Only rabbits live this way, but not real people, regardless of gender.
Worthless.
Again, a vague concept. A man who:
Important ! A man who strives to be real should not have bad habits. No one is forcing you to become a healthy lifestyle enthusiast and give up, for example, alcohol in moderation, but you should not smoke two packs a day and abuse alcoholic beverages.
Of course, conversations about what a real man should do and what he should be like are subjective. In addition, representatives of the stronger sex may well argue that real women are also rare. And yet it’s worth thinking about, maybe the problems in your life are precisely because you don’t live up to the image that women love.
Useful article? Don't miss new ones!
Enter your email and receive new articles by email
Information about what men should be like will be useful to both women and the stronger sex. We will try to describe in as much detail as possible the qualities that a person must have in order to please girls and be successful in every area of life.
There are many works praising the best. These are mainly women's novels and poems. What should a man be like? Who knows?
It is unlikely that a complete answer to such a question can be found. Each woman has her own ideas about what men should be like. Women's magazines say one thing, and it may well be correct. The author can write something else in his book, and, in his opinion, this will also be correct. Each girl has her own idea of what the man of her dreams should be, and she is also right, because she chooses him for herself.
Today in women's conversations you can often hear the phrase “real man”. Men use its slightly modified form - “normal man”. This article presents only some of the qualities that should be present in a man who will be close to the ideal. So, a real man: what should he be like?
A man must have a goal
In our opinion, this is an extremely important point. The goal may change from time to time. What should a modern man be like? First of all, he must know what he wants and what he is striving for. The goal can be anything: to achieve something in work, career, sports, personal life. The main thing is that it exists. If a man does not have a goal, then this is very bad, because his free time begins to be taken away by beer, TV, and bed. 95% of people choose such an existence, and no one will tell them that they are living incorrectly, since everyone seems to be deciding this issue for themselves. Which man will you choose? Successful and purposeful or someone who is rooted to a certain place on the sofa? What should men be like? Those who know how to set a goal and achieve it.
Be able to bear responsibility
What should a man be like? The qualities are individual, in the opinion of each girl. But, of course, any list will indicate that a man must be able to bear responsibility for himself and his family. A man should not be afraid or avoid it.
For example, one guy has conversations in this vein: everything will be fine with him. Some day. Tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, when the president changes, when the aliens arrive - it doesn’t matter. The point is that only after this event will he have a job, will he start meeting girls, will he have both money and goals. Frankly speaking, such guys do not rely on their own strength, but on a successful combination of circumstances. Just when will it happen? In general, someday, but obviously not today. And not tomorrow. Perhaps in a month or even a couple of years.
But the other guy takes a different approach. He sees a problem in front of him and thinks about how to solve it. He understands that if he does not solve the problem on his own, then no one will do it for him. Even if he doesn’t succeed the first time, he finishes the job.
Which should Literature quotations offer many options. But if a guy is not responsible for his life, can he be called a man?
He must have a strong character
What should a man's character be? First of all, strong. We are not talking about biceps strength here at all. A man should have a lot of positive energy and be able to share it with others. He always has free time, which he can, and most importantly, wants to devote to his loved ones - family, wife, girlfriend, friend. In modern society, many people only try to take something from another. But when there is a guy who doesn’t mind sharing, no matter what: time, good mood, hobby or a cup of coffee - this is really attractive.
A simple example. There are two guys. One is constantly in a bad mood, crying and sad, telling how bad it is for him, with all his appearance demanding pity for his person. And the second one is always smiling, cheerful and joyful - he knows how to solve his problems and support others, give advice or help with deeds. Which of the two guys would a sane girl choose?
Therefore, to the question: “What should men be like?” - one of the answers: those who know how to be happy and share their joy with others.
He must be physically strong
Must always be ready to protect yourself and your family. What should a man's body be like? No, an abundance of muscles is not at all necessary. However, it is not for nothing that they say that in a healthy body there is a healthy mind. A man must be active and dexterous, because if he is passive and physically weak, then what kind of mental health can we talk about?
Have your own style
In most cases, guys simply copy the other person's reactions, clothes and habits. He observed someone else's behavior, he liked the way the person behaved, and he begins to repeat the same thing, like a circus monkey. Needless to say, this looks unnatural and fake from the outside?
What should a beloved man be like? He must have his own style, which will be strictly individual. He should not have the habit of looking at others and imitating them.
This includes everything, for example, one’s own in relation to another person, without taking into account the opinions of others; individual non-standard jokes; clothes that will not allow a man to get lost in the gray mass. You will never confuse such a guy with others even a kilometer away and in a crowded crowd.
A man must be able to keep his word
There are many people in the world who say one thing today, promise another tomorrow, and swear a third the day after tomorrow. It often happens that guys simply abandon their own words in favor of personal gain. Many will say that this is wrong, and one cannot but agree with this.
If a person gave his word, then even if he hurt himself, he will fulfill his promise. Only in this case will the man be respected by his family, friends and colleagues. These are the kind of guys that girls like, because they can be trusted, they will become a reliable support.
A real man will constantly monitor what he says and be responsible for what he says. He will never contradict himself, in no case will he unreasonably slander other people, spread gossip in order to humiliate someone, and so on.
Alcohol is not for real men
Firstly, alcohol negatively affects health even in small quantities, and a man thinks about his health - both moral and physical. Secondly, a real man should be able to enjoy life without alcoholic beverages.
Can he control himself?
A real man should be able to remain calm in any life situation. Only then will he earn real respect, and maybe even admiration. After all, men who fulfill their personal or work duties, while not allowing themselves to show anger, aggression or dissatisfaction, evoke precisely such feelings in those around them.
Directness and toughness are the natural properties of the entire male sex, which are necessary in order to solve emerging issues and problems. However, it is not appropriate to have any complaints against colleagues, management, subordinates, friends or your beloved man. This is ideal.
However, this is not always the case. Nervousness, stress, and a negative attitude are common causes of early heart attacks or nervous breakdowns. Still, the woman she loves should allow the man to let off steam or at least talk it out. An unexpressed negative emotion can easily cause illness or illness.
A man must be smart
A sharp mind coupled with a good sense of humor are the necessary qualities of a real man. Without them it is impossible to achieve success.
When a person makes particularly important decisions, in most cases he is faced with the problem of choice. In order to make the right decision, a man needs a sharp mind and rich experience accumulated throughout his life. Even ordinary communication with a girl requires a lot of worldly wisdom from a guy.
He must be loving
A real man loves not only himself, but also his parents, his wife, and his children. The family should be the base on which his life is built. Everything else is secondary.
Financial success and career are not the end in itself of a real man. He achieves this not for show-off, but in order to provide his family and loved ones with a high standard of living, to make sure that they do not need anything.
Independence is an important trait
In an emergency, a real man is quite capable of ironing a shirt himself and remembering to pick up his child from kindergarten. He takes responsibility for his loved ones and family without any problems. In addition, he treats any activity, even if it is changing a baby’s diaper or mowing the grass from his garden plot, as if his fate depends on it.
Be able to self-realize
It is believed that for the sake of his family happiness, for the sake of peace and well-being of loved ones, as well as for the sake of financial success, a guy should turn from a romantic into a simple worker in an ordinary office. Children's dreams of traveling, conquering the skies and performing aerobatics have to be exchanged for daily routine work in order to be closer to the family and ensure a steadily growing income, to live a measured and calm family life. And, as already said, don’t complain about your lot.
However, any real man is distinguished by his desire for the “high”. It is necessary to respect his aspirations, support him in his work and hobbies, leaving him time for self-realization. Then a man will achieve much greater success than by overstepping himself and working at a job he doesn’t like.
To be or not to be selfish?
Often women unconsciously demand unconditional altruism from their friends. That is, before making a decision, a guy should think about anyone, but not about himself. But are you doing the right thing if you force a man to renounce his interests?
Of course, every person needs personal space in order to build their life. It’s great if it doesn’t contradict the interests of your loved one. However, perhaps it’s worth changing tactics and showing interest in the man’s hobbies? Who knows, maybe you will like it too?
Know how to show emotions
Mental and physical male development is only half the battle. If he does not have high moral and spiritual qualities, then he will be nothing more than a cyborg.
Only the man who loves will be able to make himself, his parents, his wife, his children, and all the people around him happy. Those men who, at the same time, are loving and know how to show their feelings, command universal respect.
Finally, he must be careful
Don't panic, this just means that a man should learn to put his dirty socks in the bathroom and fold his clothes neatly when he comes home. By the way, the car should not be littered with garbage either.
In fact, the phrase “real man” has already set teeth on edge, since it is actively used by everyone: writers of romance novels, mothers with strollers, authors of various texts, and even grannies on benches.
From the pages of women's novels, a macho man looks at us, a handsome man and the embodiment of all conceivable and inconceivable virtues.
According to young mothers, a real man- this is the one who will help lift a stroller up the steps, give up his seat on public transport and stand up to a crying child at night.
Grannies praise anyone who greets them.
But such characteristics of true representatives of the stronger sex are quite one-sided, because men themselves do not take part in their discussions.
Today I would like to look at this problem from the male side!
A real man through the eyes of Internet users
While preparing this material, I studied many men's forums and sites.
And on one of them I found a survey: “ A real man is", and then the answer options:
- someone who is able to solve any problem that arises;
- one who earns a lot;
- one who knows how;
- one who loves and respects his woman and his loved ones.
I was surprised that the last answer received the least number of votes.
That is, our world is filled with submen, for whom money, show-off and coolness are the fundamental characteristics of a true man?
And women (not disposable chicks!) and family are secondary.
I am sure that each of my readers has at least once encountered such boys who fumble from skirt to skirt and consider us lower forms of life.
I knew that such individuals existed, of course, but I had no idea that there were so many of them.
Real men suffer because of fake...
The article I liked was written by a male psychologist. In it he reflected on the topic: “ Who is a real man?».What struck me most was the complaints that normal guys suffer from would-be macho men who play with women’s hearts. And a lady who was wounded by one baboon will never be able to trust anyone.
It is because of this that couples and even families are destroyed!
There were comments below the text.
And representatives of the stronger sex talked about their failures on the love front, about how difficult it is to convince the woman you love that not “all men are the same...”, even if they are physiologically similar.
There were a lot of comments, the stories were truly tragic, and that’s when I realized that real men suffer from fake James Bond no less than you and I.
Moreover, it is even harder for them because they are accused of sins that have not yet been committed.
What is a real man like?
In the same article, the author gives 8 points that a real man should do.A real man is polite and respectful.
Being rude to a grandmother in a minibus, not giving up your seat to a pregnant woman, kicking a dog - such actions are generally not worthy of a person, much less a man.
A real man must control himself and restrain his emotions.
It’s the ladies who have the right to throw tantrums, cry, indulge in shopping, and complain about themselves to their friends.
If a representative of the stronger sex begins to treat injuries with alcohol and sex with just anyone, then it is unlikely that the phrase “stronger sex” can be applied to him.
A real man is able to control his libido.
Only an idiot would risk his relationship with the woman he loves by succumbing to momentary weakness.
And the man certainly does, citing the fact that sex with his wife has become boring and has lost its spice.
So spice it up and diversify it with some kind of game!
A real man is able to wait patiently for his one and only.
Males who date women because it is convenient do not deserve respect.
Lady, not a vacuum cleaner that is bought to make cleaning easier.
You can't do this to her.
A real man does not raise his self-esteem through sexual victories.
Lists of partners, bragging, greasy stories told to friends over beer, initiation of a new sweetheart into the intimate details of an old one - this is so disgusting that it cannot even be described.
A real man does not believe that sex is the most important thing in life.
Carnal satisfaction is important, but dependence on it turns a person into an animal.
Going by the “treasure in your pants” rather than by your brain and heart is so stupid.
A real man will never offend his beloved.
He will not harm her either by shouting, or even more so by physical violence.
A real man is brave enough to tell a woman that he has stopped loving her.
Many lead a double life for years or even decades, torturing both their wife and their mistress.
But it’s enough to pluck up courage once and decide who is truly dear to you.
10 signs by which you can accurately identify a fake man:
It can be quite difficult for a non-professional to distinguish a fake (both things and people) from a treasure.But by buying fake brands, fake antiques and choosing fake men as life partners, we end up with disappointment that is difficult to recover from.
Don't be fooled by cheap ones and then your chances of getting a fake will be much less!
- His narcissism is visible to the naked eye.
- He doesn't know any pronouns other than "I".
- He is not shy about looking at other women in your presence and even commenting on their charms.
- He behaves rudely towards others.
- He doesn't swear, he speaks it.
- Yelling over trifles is the norm for him.
- He's not shy about telling you about his exes.
- He is inattentive to you and has no idea what “court” means.
- Not only is he not afraid to hurt you, he also strikes with special pleasure.
- Next to him you don't feel like a real woman.
A very interesting definition.
Boys and girls are different from the start. Since childhood, girls prefer to play with dolls, clothes and relationships; boys are more interested in cars, designing something and fighting. You can, of course, raise a girl from a boy, but why? Perhaps a boy should be raised into a man. A real man.
A real man is different from both a lout and a man. “Let’s be honest – whether you are a man or not is determined not only by physiology. And no “feats” in the field of physiology make a mama’s boy a man. But you need to be a real man. At least for the sake of being loved and never stopped being loved by your true one. woman" - an accomplished man says to a future man.
A real man is a social role and a collective image that embodies the best masculine traits. Note that at different times and in different cultures, the image of a real man could be very different and not always attractive to a modern person. To become a real man, it takes a lot - the development of a masculine body, a warm and deep soul, a strong mind and masculine spirit, as well as attitudes, beliefs and manners consistent with masculine culture. See Where did the normal men go?
What is male culture and male psychology?
A man lives by reason, not by feelings and emotions. We think about and solve difficult issues, and don’t worry, don’t complain, don’t put off...
A man is demanding, and first of all to himself. He knows what duty and “must” are, and the sooner the better. Optimally - from the age of three, from the moment of awareness of oneself as an individual. You can make mistakes, but you must correct your mistakes at your own expense.
A man is the one who makes decisions and who is responsible for his decisions. If a woman is forced to answer for a man’s decisions, this is not a man, but a mama’s boy, a man. If a man is responsible for the decisions that a woman makes for him, he is not a man, but a henpecked peasant.
A man feels fulfilled and is able to focus on his relationship with a woman if he understands the three most important issues for him: who he is, what he does and how much he earns.
Men don't cry. The belief “Men don’t cry” is an obligatory part of male education. Crying in itself is neither shameful nor harmful. It's good to cry with joy, you can cry at a funeral, where it is appropriate and accepted. But in other situations where children and women might cry, men do not. Men do not cry because for them it is usually meaningless, and in order to remain men, that is, strong and reasonable people.
All little girls love to dream and fantasize. A handsome prince appears in their imagination, looking so wonderful, also with a crystal slipper in his hands. And a horse. The obligatory white horse must stand nearby and wave its mane in a welcoming manner.
What are the girls, if adult women are also those inventors - they came up with some kind of knight who must certainly save them from the evil dragon, consumer loans and mortgages for a separate apartment.
In this case, the knight may have no horse at all. The main thing in a knight is the ability to say the magic phrase: “Now you will never have to work. I am slowly removing responsibilities from you and transferring all financial responsibility to myself. Here, hold the bouquet.”
And it’s always like this: women come up with ideas, but men follow suit.
Well, what if we put jokes aside and think about what a real man should be like? Is the ability to rattle knightly armor and dashingly prance on a saber-toothed unicorn so important, or deep down in their souls do women want to see completely different qualities in their lover? Who is he, a real man, about whom millions of women's hearts dream?
Qualities of a real man
A man should be...Why does a man owe anything to anyone?
Ok, let's look from the other side. What qualities should a man have who is worthy of being with a woman who values herself? A little florid, but closer to the truth.
Real men are not born with a predetermined set of settings and characteristics. It is we, women, who often endow these qualities with the image of a person with whom we would not refuse to spend the rest of our days.
Who is a real man in our understanding and what should he be like?
- Honest
- Reliable
- Fearless
- Reasonable
- Responsible
- Able to admit their mistakes and learn from them
- Prone to self-irony
- Respecting your loved ones
- Purposeful
- True to my word
This is what truly attracts women to the mysterious souls of men. It is these masculine qualities that give a woman the feeling that she is behind a stone wall and under the reliable protection of her partner. With such a man you can relax, feeling truly feminine. Think about it, dear men, perhaps your woman behaves so authoritarian and masculine because you lack these qualities? Give her the opportunity to be a little weaker.
Habits of a real man
Our habits are reflected in our actions. And what, if not actions and exploits, do we expect from our chosen one? What signs of a real man are shown in their behavior patterns? What does it mean to be a man with a capital M?
1.He is not shy to say what he thinks
He is not afraid and does not look back at strangers when he expresses his point of view. He has his own concepts and principles. He does not depend on the opinions of others and believes that he has every right to defend his position on any issue and act as his conscience tells him.
2. He compliments you and doesn't expect anything in return.
He doesn't want sex or time off to go out with friends when he says you look great. In his mouth, this is just a statement of the fact that today you are unusually beautiful.
3. He doesn't apologize for his feelings or his desires.
He knows that he is an ordinary person with his own emotions and desires. Suppressing feelings is a destructive habit of people who do not think about its consequences.
He understands that every person has the right to experience certain emotions from time to time and this fact does not bother him at all.
You can see the tears in his eyes, and he won't turn away when he notices your gaze. A real man realizes that sometimes he can afford this weakness. He's not an insensitive idol.
4.He takes care of his body, mind and soul
A real man understands that in order to be able to help others, he must be at his best. He does not ruin his body with bad habits and unhealthy food, but takes proper care of it. He plays sports because he understands how important it is to be strong and healthy, and inspires others to do the same.
5. He supports a woman in all her endeavors
A real man knows what it means for a woman to be passionate about something.
If you want your lady’s eyes to sparkle with enthusiasm, do not destroy her dreams, but, on the contrary, give her a helping hand to implement ideas that can “ignite” her. It is important to be able to hear what your significant other is trying to convey to you.
6. He doesn't resort to manipulation.
A real man plays by fair rules. He will never use guilt manipulation or blackmail you to achieve his goal.
He is straightforward and confident enough to tell you his desires to your face.
7. He will be with you in your most difficult times.
A real man will not back down from his woman, even if some of his ill-wishers throw crap at the fan. He will hold her hand tightly and accept life’s most daring challenge with honor. Such a man will, without hesitation, defend the honor of his family. For him, this is a matter of principle.
8. He listens to his inner voice
Such a man trusts his intuition more than the promises of some people. If his intuition tells him that something smells like kerosene, he will check everything again to make sure his feelings are true.
9.He's not afraid to ask for help
And he himself is not shy about offering his own. A real man understands that mutual assistance in society is perhaps one of the most important things that connects us all.
10. He is not afraid to argue with a woman, but knows how to ask for forgiveness if he is wrong
A real man will not silently and indifferently nod his head if your arguments do not have a logical basis. He will make it clear to you that you are wrong and that you should not behave that way. In this way he protects his own borders. If it turns out that he was wrong, he finds the strength to admit his mistakes and apologize for his behavior.
Dear men, upgrade your qualities and skills. Always strive only for the best version of yourself! Dear girls, do not forget that next to a real man there will only be a real woman. Remember this and do not disturb the balance and harmony.
